Few fathers can boast that they have a child's rations. More mothers and tat zishtovhuyutsya with a big head, which is always consumed in the form of unacceptability, we are always preparing to winding up and constantly rebelling. The most paradoxical are those who have a similar behavior - tse fermentation of behavioral reactions of grown-ups. A child posterizes, chooses, and inherits you - now, your copy is growing.
The peak of Batkiv's skarg on the disobedience of children falls on the age of 5-7 years (it is recommended to read:). A sweet and lazy little one knows well until the next century, and in front of the grown-ups there is a ruinous catastrophe in the sight of the donka chisin. Food is formed by itself, so work, as if a child does not listen to anyone. The advice of psychologists is always the same: “Take care of the baby, starting from the 1st fate.”
Most of the fathers cannot boast of him, that the child's height is hearing and always rob, what can I sayWhat is "vіk disobedience"?
The skin of a child is the whole world, which develops according to its own laws. No one - neither mother, nor doctors, can give an exact answer, if the baby has a turning point and turns into a small bisochka. One already in the 2nd year vykonu barvisty hysterics, the other in the 4-5th year did not learn in such a way of vimagati bazhany. Molding behavior to go along with the accompaniment to the yard, sіm'ї, kindergarten.
Psychologists rely on the fact that up to 2 years old, the wholeness of a child begins to develop. Having reached the 3rd line, the little one has already acquired a powerful “I” and continues to do it all the way, scooping up the clay from its sharpening. The moment of crisis is coming, you can’t miss the fathers, otherwise it will be very important to correct it. Respectfully stitch at this period for the little one, straighten it out at the hour.
Children of 6-7 rokiv miraculously understand what is “good” and what is “bad”. You know, like you need to be at home and in public, at the primary mortgages, prote batki and readers often stick with the disobedience of first-class students who are paraded. The child does not hear, grimaces, is rude, swears at the gidoti navmisno, at the peak of someone, or I’m afraid - it’s necessary to take it as a point of view.
Fakhіvtsі talk about the crisis of the 7th century. Why so vіdbuvaetsya? Walking to school, the little ones stick to the new rules and vimogami. Such a turn zmushuєєх rethink one's life ahead. At the child nursery, the little one was praised and told that he was already grown up, and at the school, the first-grader felt that he was still small. Rizka metamorphosis seems to itself in the world invigorates the psyche of a little specialness. Such a change is given to those who did not go to the children's garden. At home, the little ones, not sticking with a strict schedule to take that repair, were moved away by close, well-known people. Zvichainno, trapplyayuchi in an unknown middle ground with strict rules, the little one succumbs to the furnishing.
Far from being a child at school, you become a prosperous child - adaptation can pass and do it well How do you virostaє "baby cub"?
Asking yourself why the child is not heard, freak out and hysteria, marvel a little more, to understand, the stars have taken in a new place (it is recommended to read:). Look at yourself, even the little one is a great successor, who takes all the information from your words. Polypshiti razuminnya will help you to analyze the situation, how to put the transformation of a cute yangola on a nekerovan primha that minion. Like a child is not heard, it means:
- Sim'ya not vikoristovuє have yogo vyhovanni pedagogical principles. For example, the inconsistency of the allowable ones and the fenced diy fathers. Today, mothers have a warm mood and grown up do not remember that the little ones marvel at the love of cartoons until 11 o'clock in the evening. Tomorrow everything has changed, apart from embarrassment or turbulence, the little one will start sleeping on the 9th evening.
- The principles of vihovannya mami and tata are radically changed. Zvіdsi th go out, scho is not heard. Just like mom allows you to sit until the white of the TV, and tato shout that the time has come to lie down to sleep, the little one is dragged into a situation where there are clear norms of behavior. The child does not know whom to listen to, the bachachis are divided among the grown-ups.
- Close people are condescendingly put up to іsterikіv and whims of the "small". Remember - the child does not listen to you, the shards of you turn to disobedience. Children are powerfully guided by equal instincts and reflexes. Rozumiyuchi, that by crying, crying, hysterics you can quickly reach the bazhany, the little one will fix such a behavior. Just as soon as you stop giving respect to yoga violent vipadi, home tyrant step by step pin down hysteria and scream.
Significantly important caution: children never sing in front of a TV set, roaming with a loving little car in front of strangers. The little tyrant miraculously knows on whom yoga “concerts” are due, and on whom nothing can be done before them. Like a child, 2 fates are not heard, tantrums roll, the camp can still be corrected. An hour has passed, and the child of 5 years is not heard - it will happen to live with yoga whims for a long time, so that you and your son will get on your nerves.
The child knows miraculously, before whom from early May sensual power of hysterics How to sound the child of hysterics?
Vvazhayuchi, scho to hear the whimsical and hysterical little one is unbearably important, richly someone lowers his hands. The pardon has been expanded, even though a simple pedagogical method has long been broken up. Zvichayno, for the sake of it, you have to work hard, but you want your non-hearing child to pretend to be a hearing-bearing and twisted person. Cheer - the earlier you try this method, the sooner you will achieve a positive result.
How to ring out to roar the fathers? Having said that the little one will be hysterical or choked with tears, mother is ready to vikonate, be it yoga vimogu. Mami, as a rule, try to calm down the little one, obіtsyayuchi to inspire more than what you can ask for the donkey, abi їhnіy belongings without banging your filthy head about the lie (it is recommended to read:). The old zvichna scheme, but how does it work? The child calms down less than timchasovo, before the onslaught of the bajan.
A new pedagogical approach will help you to get rid of the nebazhanі dії. They yelled that the child is not heard, it’s not possible to scream and cry - to smile and look out of the room, but stay in the visibility zone, so that you know that you all sing that you feel. Remember the hysterics - turn around and laugh again. As if the child is not listening, he starts screaming and crying again, repeat the maneuver, go out of the room. Calm down - turn around, hug, kiss.
How to recognize the correctness of that apparent grief?
Zastosovyte a new scheme for crying and crying, tied with yoga whims. The little one can cry, snarling the dog, or in pain, fall into the mountains in the form of a toy, that he was angry, as if he had been given the image of another child. Such a behavior is absolutely adequate. Here it’s really necessary to blow the little one at that moment, if the little one is embarrassed. As far as the “on the edge” emotions, the zastosovuchi way, there are more descriptions, you step by step will reach the one that your belongings will forget about your “zakidoni”.
Doctor Komarovsky is kind to mothers, that a steady reflex is formed in a child, if he wins the reception: “I scream - I don’t cry for anyone, I murmur - love me and smell me.” The fathers respectfully walk in such a state for 2-3 days, so that the little one has learned a lesson and pretended to be a hearing child. It’s like not to be patient, to have a chance to start everything back, but to continue to endure yoga primhi.
Like a child of intelligence, that in a "quiet" calm state she is also in love with a cicava, the sense of power of hysterics is simply inflicted. Rozumne "can't", like the basis of a twist
The whirlwind process cannot be revealed without a fence. If you have grown up incorrectly, such words will be written, like “it is not possible” chi “nі”, there will be no corrosiveness in the fence. Investigations have shown that in sim'yakh, de zaboronny words winkow out of any kind of drive, otherwise they are not present in the twined children, they are called "important children". Slid to learn how to competently zastosovuvat "it is not possible", shards from the first "n" said at the hour, lie down away from the son's behavior.
An important and adequate reaction of the baby to the fence. For example, your son was broken by a bicycle and went down to the passing part of the road, your “can’t” can be staggered sharply. Razumіyuchi, how can you simply “nі” vryatuvat the life of the little ones, you are guilty of the nobility, how you can competently win. Stick to these rules:
- Implant the word "impossible" less on the right. Tse can be situations that involve the safety of the child itself or the fence, which are included in the norm of behavior (you can’t throw a smile, be it, call other children, fight).
- Diya fence is not fenced. Your belongings are suffering from an allergy to milk protein - later, it’s impossible for you to freeze, to bring up a child that was hearing, that took a high five from school.
- Having installed the fences on the surface of the fence, you should clearly explain to the children why you are working so hard, but by all means do not discuss the right to the installed fence yourself.
- Eat sleepily. It's nasty, like tato "nі" to resist my mother's "so". Such a power itself expands to other close relatives.
- Accepted at your family's fence, you should be treated by your relatives, with whom a 2-4-row child is connected. Try not to let the situation happen, if you can’t eat anything with malt, but you can visit your grandmother.
Fence the guilty buti for the child with a serious argument What work, if you don’t help anything?
Zvernemosya to the delights of Dr. Komarovsky. The famous pediatrician for the sake of the fathers, if you want to vihovat an adequate person, behave in principle and in sequence. Keep calm in case of childish primhas and hysterics. Be safe in your birth until the baby's behavior. Walk a few hours and sing, like your nervous little has pinned its inadequate vipadi. The doctor recommends remembrance of those who do not take away the fear through weeping and crying, the little people swear by it.
Like, nadayuchi competently, not giving a reaction to the nervous bursts of the child, you see that the method does not work - the problem lies deeper. The child needs to be shown to a psychologist and a neurologist. Possibly, the root of evil in the medical field. Acts of neurological illness can be the cause of such behavior. Fakhіvtsі obstezhuyut child and z'yasuyut, as you can help. Timely glee to correct the situation with inadequate behavior.
The main ambush of competent vihovannya
How to wiggle a hearing child, adequately and intelligently? It's not so complicated anymore, just to get to the bottom of the basic principles of vihovannya. Fathers are guilty of behaving in such a way that they look like a baby. Golovne is a powerful positive example. You can’t go on about it, it’s necessary to report to your belongings, which is why you praised the solution, tied from the fence with the condemned topping.
Praise and explanation
- Praise for a good behavior may sound from the wust of the fathers so very often, like a condemnation for the filthy fault. Bagato tatkiv and mothers forget about it, take the garna of behavior as if it were better, but swell with angry tirades for the filthy one. If a child is not heard, it does not mean that he has a filthy character. Malyuk in the world of his forces vibudovu model of behavior, focusing on the fathers and other members of the family. Most often praise the son or the donka, even the little one will try to behave in such a way as to please you and a little affectionate words addressed to him.
- It is impossible to judge a baby for whims, passing on special charges. Zavdannya batkiv - sue vchinok. For example: lad Kolya plays with other children on a childish Maidan, shtovhaєєєх, take away toys, swear, zavazhaє. Obviously, matured, it seems that Kolya is filthy, greedy, evil. Such a condemnation applies to the individual lad, and not to the yogo vchinkiv. As soon as you throw out such words, the boy will call out to them and we will ruin ourselves. Layati is required correctly. Tell you that you are kind. Ask, through which you have done something nasty, punish yourself for the fault.
- Be-yakі vimogi, yakі pred'yavlyayutsya malyukovі, not guilty go beyond the sensible.
How to karate correctly?
- The warning line is a rude pedagogical pardon. Having spared the trieric little one of the evening cartoons for those who made that uranium, you put yogo in a deaf kut. The birth of the little one is not good enough for such a timely development in one whole, you just don’t understand why they punished you.
- Carrying a child, take care of the calm, move out of her quietly, without a cry. Psychologists talk about those who have grown up, a person can feel better, if they speak to her without crying, it is more important to talk to a child. Є risik just bring on the little one, but don’t correct the situation.
It is not guilty to be on the emotions of that brute force, otherwise the child is growing up to be closed and aggressive - Trying to talk to your son at the moment, if the child is not heard, follow your own manner. Think how the biwee reacted, the yakbies shouted at you and called you with filthy words.
- Rozmovlyayu that explaining, you are guilty of buti vpevneni, scho your belongings you understand. Know the ways to convey your strengths to the children, living out of their individual strengths. It’s simpler to say, joke your child down to a small individual.
The power of a special butt
- Skіlki b vy did not explain the little ones, as if it were necessary to repair it correctly, you can only get a better understanding with a special butt. Show him the right way, calling out to work like that. Swing on a special butt, which is more effective, lower richly said words. Become a positive sign for your child, then the same person is a good person.
- Razbirayuchi filthy chi nebazhany vchinok, convey to the child the legacy of yoga. For example, if the little ones give away toys from a lizhka, do not pick them up. Having been left without toys, I have become wiser, to what extent I have grafted yoga toppings. Older children, who allow serious windings, pronounce the whole lance of negativity, which will stretch for their “feat”.
- Be prepared to reevaluate your final decision, especially when considering the benefits of deaf children aged 8-10 years and older. Listen to prove your 12-fold sin chi donka, let me explain why you did it like that. It is possible, for this explanation, to change your decision; Show a little specialty that you respect yoga, be ready to accept reasonable arguments.
Folding wiggles are made easier, as you stand in the position of not being an opponent of a child, like a wise ally. Compliment with your son, value your thought, honor your special qualities. Guide wisely and fairly. Lay down good behavior from an early age, so that you don’t get stuck with the filth in the future. Serve as a good butt for your child, and you will see everything.
suggest, scho work, like a child of 8 years is not heard? and taking away the best vіdpovіd
Vidpovid vіd Cutie[guru]
show yoga behavior on your butt. even if you don’t ask for it, you don’t know a little and you don’t understand.
Vidpovid vіd Olya Narina[Newbie]
Fuck, vibatch for rudeness
Vidpovid vіd Eyes of green color blue[guru]
It is necessary to remember to speak with a child. Worse than what has been written, yelling that the child DOES NOT REASON YOU, but simply DOES NOT CHOOSE. Try to become your authority and show your butt to your liking. Stand up and strike your own club, pididit to the child and say: BLUE. You write: "A child in 8 years is guilty even if you want to understand" ... you don’t have Mowgli adzhe, not in fox growth, to whom and what is guilty? STILL YOU HAVE TO BE DIRECTED YOGO ON TSE RAZUMINNYA. From your nourishment, negativity flows and is not patient .... an apple in the apple tree ... a child to rob you of evil at the sight of your unreasonable. How do you know how to understand you, why don’t you think about it?
Vidpovid vіd Lisa Schneider[Newbie]
you yourself, as if you are cruelly savage with a child, so I’ll become you at a vіdpovіd, i’ll have a total of 8 years !! in the future wines of your own, you don’t get so upset, then try to talk calmly and cheerfully, ask for more time and more time, indulge yourself, talk a lot about positive things !! gro, de for good wins we will take a small prize, read the dough, the children need to develop, the sooner the better
Vidpovid vіd Oleksandr Kashilov[guru]
Up to five years, a child is occupied exclusively with receiving respect for herself. If you react only to yoga capost, then wine and dirty tricks. It seems that yours has become a sign of such a rank to turn the respect of the fathers and you can’t chime in. From 5 to 12 years of age, children need to be punished, for those who stink are bad and don’t understand shit. On April 12-13, it’s already possible to grow up like a grown-up house, shout and beat marno, only embitter. At 17-20 rokіv -є the order "Shkoduєsh mace, vtratish son. "I listen less to the overseas Anglo-Saxon marennya z vyhovannya іtei, їх propaganda іkrіv і spramovavana ruynuvannya sіmei sіmey potentiynyh kontivіnіh. So, if a child is "vipadkovy flooded" by a product of sexual thoughts not controlled by the mind, and if the offspring of the mother's father is not recognized, then such a child will sound importantly with the majestic potential of goodness (everything is just for yourself). Sound in old age there is little such hope.
In these articles:
Up to 8 years, the mental development of a child already allows the growth of wisps: they have matured. Education at school becomes one of the main tasks, the main type of activity.
Children may not love, or love school in their own country, but the initial activity borrows a particularly important part of their life. At once you happen to change your pidkhid to vihovannya, even if the methods have passed for a person who has grown up, you can’t die anymore.
Obov'yazkovo to show respect, that your schoolboy is already able to work himself. Layati ta want yoga tezh is necessary correctly. It's an hour, if your troubles start to be discussed. The child wants to know, now you ask її to work, why at once, and not tomorrow evening. This is another crisis period of the formation of specialty. Varto just check for new. Set the frame of reference: stinks are needed at once.
Psychology and development
In 8 years, there are those that psychologists call the "now" rebellion. At the same time, the psychological development already allows people to obscurate the cause of their own and other people's actions. Children in such 
All the people want to take care of their own interests, fight for independence. Your fathers were like that at the right time, so it’s not like the particularity of your son or daughter. You can’t walk on the occasion, but it’s also wrong to leave the conflict without a resolution.
There is nothing nasty about the new independence of the child. Tse inevitable stage of development, which you will go through at once. Best of all, you should learn how to put cordoni, show: it’s possible, but the axis is no longer possible. At the same time, the best tactic of cheating is your correct situational breakdown. Here you can give up and you will not waste anything, but here you need to follow a healthy mind. There will be a battle, for some fathers you can program. Tse pide children are less likely to reproach.
What can a child do?
Just like in 7 years my mother folded a portfolio in front of the school, then in 8 years we have to take care of the children’s school rights on their own. It is necessary for the fathers to follow them, so that they will win the yakomoga self-sufficient. It’s necessary for each person to have obov’yazkovo, for example:
Vіdkladati is no longer possible. Children chirp loudly to the style of life, a hundred years old. Yakshto Vіn only prepare lessons, but everything else works mom, pa pa, granny, then the child will soon learn how to live like this. Without viability, the psyche of any other person develops faster, that which has no incentive for a logical and situational thought.
duje 
to take care of language, sports, and music in the most respectful way. Here the smut rule is to take care of the children and revantazhuvate yoga. The challenge at school is not so great, but the children will need an hour to repair, igor. As soon as the school has a skin day, it will be homework, and if there are sections, then you won’t lose an hour for repairs. Tse wrong pіdhіd. The bands of that section can be worn for the time being 2-3 times a day.
It's important to fall asleep
The rule "be more sleepy - sleep better" does not apply to children. The nervous system is resurrecting as it has matured. Mom that tato spends a whole day, wakes up, and in the evenings it’s hot, but your schoolboy doesn’t live for such a program. So, 
physical activity helps you lose tension. For whom it is appropriate to have an evening walk in the fresh air. At a child, you can have a rich experience, feed stink torturing yogo and not letting him fall asleep.
Install trustworthy words: talk, talk, resolve problem situations. If you suggest a solution, then the children will be richer and easier to fall asleep in the evening. If the new one doesn’t have the ability to talk to you, then his thoughts will torment him. Even more school problems and experiences can be overcome with a simple rose with fathers.
Games
Vіk 8 rokіv - an hour, if you have an active development of the psyche, intellect. Ale doesn't mean what 
schoolchildren do not need games and toys. Goofy contagion - give them the opportunity to play calmly, without imposing on what "for little ones". Under the hour of the grit, children of 7-8 years of age model the life of the situation, know the solution. This is a miraculous motivation for the development of the psyche, even if it is necessary to overcome situational problems, to know how to get out of different situations. Under the hour of gris, a lot of talented children show up.
School
Ninіtse headline activity of a young schoolboy. Illuminate and develop 
head themes for rommovi, hvilyuvan that bazhan. At once, a lot of schoolchildren are already catching up with their assessments, the praises of their teacher. Do not start such a situation for a long time. A lot of teachers at the young school become baiduzhim until they start learning. Showing interest - the leader is not less than a reader, but a father.
At once it is said a lot about those that the badge system is not the best. The child has more strength not for training, but for those who want to get a “five” or not take a “two”. The meta sanctification itself will come out smitten. Few children say to feed “what do you want?” So:
shob 
fathers did not bark.
Because everyone learns.
To take the fives.
It’s a pity, if the reader didn’t explain the sensational process to him, then stink like that and think. Such learning is not to bring special results, and knowledge is forgotten already for a few days or after the holidays. Golovne zavdannya batkіv and vchitelіv - zatsіkaviti.
Don't say "we're grown up"
Go step by step, that development of children. You don’t need to be vimagati, so you could see it better. At your suid 
a baby in 8 years already knows 2 movies, do you read books today and win at the olympiads? Do not varto put yoga in your child’s unattainable butt, like loving cartoons, do not always cope with mathematics and the world of superheroes. Mustache children develop individually. In addition, stinks can be successful in various areas. For example, with your dislike for mathematics, your child is good, talented with technology and a good athlete.
Vimagati play the toys, play, the children are busy and get more excited about the training - the wrong pidkhid.At 8 rokiv, children themselves will understand what they are growing up. The stench is progressively changing interests. For example, a little one can raptomy often start playing daily music, or choose a field of knowledge and want to do it only. Fathers often paint themselves at the head with an ideal development plan. However, the ideal does not come simply to the fact that your child is alive, with its own interests, hopes, and possibilities. Give you an hour to get to know yourself.
Vihovannya
Navchannya is good, but it’s also necessary for vikhovannyam to take care of it. At the head of your schoolboy, there is still a program: whatever you want, then lamentably, even with hysteria you can take everything. The hour has come to sing yoga out of it. Such behavior is manipulative, and the fathers are going to be very bad, so you can’t take it to the head.
Features of behavior
At tsimu vіtsi, in 8 roki, the reception hour of the special self-denial of the child begins. Earlier, the fathers asked to be robed, and the son of the son was beaten to hell. Now you can post the food “Navischo?”. So, maybe: "Now fill it up lightly, I'll turn back from school and sleep again", "Now you have to wash the dishes at once, you can remember tomorrow", "Now you can walk the dog for me, you can". Here you need to put yourself in perspective. Your explanation will not bring a special result, a “reasonable” child knows 1000 arguments.
For a child, it is necessary to set frames 
behaviors. For example, in public, at guests, at shops, it is unacceptable to start “but now ...” It’s just necessary to ask like that, like asking mom to chi tato. Vіn i himself pіdsvіdomo shukaє tsі frames, require їх. Punish the schoolboy so, as they punished yoga earlier ( shout, kut, blurt on the butt) Now stupidly. It’s quicker to explain calmly what for the nevikonannya prohannya batkiv pide those and those (pick up the phone, you won’t be able to turn on the TV, go for a walk).
In order to serve your interests, the little one can start to win over your entrustment, even more correctly and inaccurately. Chi do not fill it up just like that. Follow the vicons, think about overdoing it, it’s like it’s rotten badly. For a child, it is a heavy burden. Adzhe vin himself is already rich in understanding, to instill your vchinki, but still I’ll lie in front of you. In 8 years, the normal process of growing up the psyche is observed. Come have some patience.
Yak karati and make you want
Here you need to be smart: from the little ones, like your sin chi donka 
If they were earlier, the stinks are already changing on a whole bunch of grown-up people. Your cries, imagining them not to sound like a bugbear chi nebzhannya schos robiti. Navpaki, tse for a person who has matured, covered. You can already understand that there is nothing concrete behind your image. With a child of 8 years, speak more objectively. Explain to you what you want, what you will be, as if you should be vigilant about the end of your hand.
Innodі varto pіti on kompromіs. How does your schoolboy eat normally, but if there are no ogirks, is it so famously? You singly є nabіr produktіv, yakі you do not like, and u їх not їste. Instead of fighting for stumps, put a salad for another vegetable. Abo vzagali urge you to cook your own salad, as if all this cistern is to be eaten and loved.
Development of the psyche 
already slipped through the first 2-3 rocks at the school. Now punish the child just like that, like 3-4 years ago, it’s not possible anymore. Tse can create youma complex. Take the best early warning for home, and don’t do anything like that in front of your friends and readers on the street. Tse is no longer a baby, who does not remember his filthy stuffing.
If you lay and punish, then you need to want to. For 8 years, it is already possible to give children trochs of special pennies. Small pennies are eager not to harm youma. Alya doesn’t need to “grate” z tsim, giving pennies, and then we’ll pick up for the filthy behavior of chi training. Tse bred only to the point of mistrust of children and increased secrecy.
Rozmova with a child
Soak up all the problems of virishuvati rosemary. The correct development of a child is impossible without the support of the fathers. Vin is to blame for your bachiti, not your enemy, for whom you need to take your thoughts, busy that speech, but your beloved dad and friend. For whom to gain patience. It's not so easy - wonder how your little one has grown up. So, wine becomes self-sufficient, it doesn’t really require any kind of joy , prote your dovirchі rozmovi korisn_ you both.
So you can find out what it is really, your child. Adzhe vin changed a lot for the rest of the 2-3 years, which is learned at school. So you will become not only a strict father, but also a friend, to solve a lot of problems. In a folded situation, wines will always turn to you, and not more often than myself shukati like a summative way out of the camp.
The reasons for the child's disobedience are impersonal, and the stench of the skin has its own stench - that in 2 years, 5, 7, 8 or 9 years of the child, it is nasty to behave through deaks singing factors. Wanting, zvichayno, є і wildly negative change of mind, for example, permissiveness.
Food, to work, if the child is not heard, it is not rare. It is impossible to leave the situation on its own, even if the behavior of extreme forms is often filthy, if the little ones are practically seen in the hands. Let's get smart.
A change of situation, if the child is not well-behaved, even rich.
Below are 5 typical signs of a child's disobedience, the skin has its own rethinking and age-old framework:
- . It is not uncommon to trap in such a way that after the repeated advance of the little ones, two of the rocks turn around from their mother's hands on walks, grabbing for hospitality objects. Zvichayno, podіbnі vchinki vymotuyut.
- . On whether my mother’s might be able to chi prohannya child vіdpovіdaє support, protest,. Vin does not want to dress up, sit at the table, turn around from the walk. Similar behavior is often observed in children of 3 years and 4 years of age.
- The child is overjoyed. Navit at 5 rokіv children can behave simply unbearably: shouting and running in huge places, shuffling and shuffling. As a result, mothers are even more shameful through dissatisfied look at that respect for lonely people. Most often, in 7 years, such a problem occurs again.
- . On the prohannya of grown-ups they will dress up, climb into the kіmnatі children will tell the movants and ignorance of the beasts before them. A similar behavior is especially characteristic in 10 years and older, if a subliminal rebellion begins.
- . Such vchinki are typical for the young preschool age. At the 4th birthday, children can loudly vimagati napolagati on the expensive toys, or whether there is malt.
For the solution of such problems, take your own vikhovni, like calling a child to a child more hearing. Ale, before the description, there is a word about what the children do not hear.
Cause disobedience
Dzherel "wrong" behavior is sometimes easy to install, just by analyzing the little things and your reaction to them. In other situations, provocative officials are attached, so the analysis can be worse.
Below are the most widespread reasons for the disobedience of children of different age:
- Crisis period. Psychology sees a few of the main crisis stages: 1st age, 3rd years, 5th, 7th years, 10th - 12th years (ear of a transitional age). Of course, between time and effort, it is more important otherwise - in the period, there are significant changes in the child's special features and characteristics. The psyche and behavior change.
- Nadmirna kіlkіst zaboron. Rebellion is a natural reaction of children, no matter how old you are. With a word that sounds fast, “it’s impossible” for a child to destroy fences on purpose, in order to bring his independence and “annoy” the fathers.
- Inconsistency of Batkiv. Three different reasons for fathers to apply sanctions against children for those who didn’t want to, then didn’t sue. Obviously, the guilt of destruction, disorientation, as it appears in disobedience.
- permissiveness. In such a situation, navpaki, there is practically no delimitation. Literally everything is allowed to a child, the father’s oskolki stray to understand “happy childhood” and “turboless childishness”. The result of the confusion, be it a primkham, becomes roaring;
- Razbіzhnosti in nutrition. Different from a child to a child is not rare. For example, fathers call for more children, while mothers show compassion and pity. Otherwise, the conflict can be caused between fathers and older generations. At any time disobedience - a legacy of disorientation of a child.
- Disgusting childish individual. Quite often the change has grown up, so that a child in 8 or 9 years is also “without rights”, like a single person. The stench does not mind hearing this thought, it is not surprising that the protest behavior is to blame for the result.
- Sim's conflicts. Grown up, z'yasovuchi vlasnі stosunki, forget about the child. And that one is trying to turn respect through windings to instill serious guilt. It’s easy to change into a voice.
Not alone, if the child's behavior gets worse, after changing the warehouse of the family: separation or the birth of a brother / sister. The main motive for disobedience in such situations is the need to tighten respect.
How to react to disobedience?
It has already been said about the typical problems and causes of the child's disobedience. Now it is necessary to understand that the fathers should work, like a child is not heard.
Varto means that the language is about vchinki, yakі still get stuck in the middle of the norm. Tobto is seen by itself disobedient, and not the behavior that is observed.
Korisna is relevant to the article, in which a psychologist rozpovidaє, that like Batkiv cries to pour into Yogo away from life.
Another important article is dedicated to those physical punishments. The psychologist can explain.
Why should you work with a child, if you don’t take care of the flooring thoughtlessly, why do you threaten your healthy life? It is necessary to build a system of hard frames, yakі fenced over.
The 3rd baby, which actively knows the world, simply does not show how unsafe it is. Prote z vіkovyh idiosyncrasies and razumіє expanses of explanation, to that the system of bordering is primed on mentally-reflexive behavior.
The child, having felt the song of the word, may chirp like a reflex. It’s important, don’t leave the shards for an hour to explain the situation that has developed, and imovirnyh nasledkiv.
So that the whole structure was commissioned, needed:
- pick up the signal word, yak meant a categorical fence. It’s best not to win the word “impossible” with the help of the method, the shards of a child can feel it all the time. Signals "stop", "not safe", "I'm harrowing" come on;
- demonstrate the interrelation between the signal word and the negative word. Obviously, the situation is not to blame for becoming a serious problem for the child. For example, like a child pulling a finger to the neck, you can allow him to be vigilant bіl vіd hot. In truly unsafe situations, it is necessary to promulgate the signal viraz: “It is not safe to take a knife.”, “It is not safe to stick around the stove.”;
- clean up emotions. Sometime a child 5 the fates of life are specially provocative to insecurity, so that the mother slandered for the new one, and she was filled with її emotions. Axis why not show your strong feelings, if the little ones behave like that.
The introduction of categorical fences can also be accompanied by changes in other borders, shards in a different situation are risky, so the child simply gets lost, what is possible, and what work is not possible.
As it was appointed, children go through a sprat crisis, as they are characterized by protest moods. A grown-up man with a right to autonomy, a prote rіdko like a father ready to give in 5, 8 or 9 roіv.
How to charge the fathers at tsyom vipadka? Let the child be self-reliant and take a decision. Wait a minute, you can give him the opportunity to virishuvate, chim vin we’ll take or what to wear to school.
Similar speeches will be given to the fathers as a trinket, but for the child, as he grows, it is a kind of transfer to the grown-up world. And yet you know that you can bring mischief to your loved ones.
If the child is attacking the vikonans of the “programmatic” leader, let him tse vikonati (so, obviously, it’s not possible to mischief the little one himself). However, after an unsatisfactory result, you don’t need to speak, saying, I got ahead of myself, etc.
As if the protest turned into hysteria, the grown-up sled to take care of the calm, otherwise the emotional sleep is less likely to be overcome. It is necessary to let the child look like peeps, squeeze it to yourself, or, on the other hand, see the troch, without letting go of your respect. All fall in vіd obstavin.
The child is overjoyed
And here it is necessary to give an understanding of what are the fundamental behavioral principles, as it is necessary to obov'yazkovo dotrimuvatisya. Obviously, if a child is not heard in the 4th year, then she may simply not understand the importance of vikonnannya tsikh vimog.
And all the same, work with respect, explain, and, zreshtoy, it is necessary to take care of children. To this, mother, and suddenly, and eighth, is guilty of repeating the obvious words: “Do not kick the armchair, for the people in front sit unhanded.”
If you don’t go out at once, then closer to 8 years the child understands the rules of behavior, about which so often repeat mom or tato. The more accessible to explain, Tim shvidshe the moment has come.
Children do not want to listen to the father, who reads you a notation, for two reasons:
- the child is busy, hovering in her thoughts, she doesn’t feel like that, about what the father is talking about;
- there is one more variant of the protest behavior.
For the first time, children behave like this, for those, autistic risi are manifested. However, a similar behavior can also appear in gifted children, shards of stink constantly scroll around the head of impersonal ideas.
It is necessary to find out why the child herself can’t or doesn’t want to hear, so that you can immediately correct the situation and try to make yourself happy. Qualifications of a psychologist show you how to work for everyone.
Protest behavior of children older than 9 years and especially children. They want more independence, they are angry at the fathers, they are encouraged to listen to them, relying on their support in such a rite.
It doesn't matter if the rebellious bastard is not heard, or the child is a trinity, the methods of solving the problem will be similar. It is necessary to give children more self-reliance, so as not to harm their security, and more love and encouragement.
Child wimagai buy youmu shchos
You don't need to check, as long as that whimsicality grows into a hysterical attack. It's the best negaino to go out of the store and pick up the child with an obedient drive. For example, explain why they forgot the pennies.
"Purchase", which is not seen, must be returned to another day. Give respect to the gut, which is passing through, guard the bird on the head, repeat the winding of the verse. Sound the little ones quickly forgetting about an unfinished purchase.
If a child is older than 6 - 7 years old, then it’s already next to be housed with her. Let them argue why you need this river itself. Find out, maybe, you’re good enough to spend your pennies (yakscho є) on a toy or a phone.
Then varto say to add an insufficient sum for the day of the people, or New river and buy a river that was worthy. Zvisno, obіtsyanku required obov'yazkovo streamati.
We looked at what work, like a child is not heard in typical situations. However, global recommendations, yakі will be corny to all the fathers and it’s unimportant, how many years the child has risen - 3, 5, 8 hours 9 years.
- Shorten the number of fences, stripping them for just serious situations. And here the number of punishments will decline negainoly.
- Like a child in 8 years, you can’t hear, but when you sounded the problem with a cry, try to calm down and be respectful in a calm tone.
- If your child does not hear through hoarseness, try to turn his respect not with screams, but, on the contrary, whispers, mimics or gestures. Spivrozmovnik want-not-want to happen to listen.
- Do not voice your strengths too much. Just get ahead of your back, so that the child has pinned herself to indulge, then we will follow the disciplinary world. And even after the warning, the reason for such sudden visits is explained.
- Try not to get used to promo part "NOT". Tsya is glad to dwell on the thoughts that children do not take on a negative particle, literally accepting the prohannya like curiosity to diy.
- If you want to erase a child, you can’t use it at the moment to reach your mind. Calm yourself, once again confirm your power, without raising your voice. It’s better to pass at 8, 9 roki, and from the children of the early century, make a maneuver that will make you think.
- Be poslіdovnі vchinkah, vymogah and obіtsyankah. So enlist the support of a person and that grandmother. Uzgodzhenіst not to allow disorientation of the child, who has no reason to behave zuhvalo.
- Try to add more than an hour to talk with children. Moreover, it is not the number of quills that is important, but the amount of mutual modality.
- Morally prepare yourself for the inevitable growth. The child is grown up, he needs more independence for the realization of his dreams and plans. For the opportunity, secure your independence.
- Show more interest. Find out how alive your child has grown up. Possibly, those who love films are not so superficial, but the music is melodic.
Like a child in 10 years or 2 years, you don’t hear after a lot of thousands of zusils from your side, rather turn to a psychologist.
The child was heard, or accepted, adequately raised to the height of the grown-ups, it is necessary to make the most trustworthy child-batkivska stounki and to make an emotional connection.
Ways to install trusted data:
- Children respectfully understand what you can tell the fathers about the situation, what is turbulent. It is also necessary for a small person to know that they can put food for grown-ups, not being afraid that you will get angry. Vodnochas and the fathers are guilty without a litter to feed, clarify, rozpovіdayuchi about the sprat ways to solve the problem.
- If you need to remind you of an important novelty, or ask for a term, rather than shouting, but go ahead, come - to make physical contact. If you show your high level of intellect in this situation, then the child will have less inspiration for you.
- When spіlkuvannі nіbіbnі pіdtrimuvati zorovyi kontakt, prote glance may be m'yakim. If the father is marveled at, then the child is watching the threat, the force is pressing on the new one, that skin is taking it as a command.
- Vihovannya maє on uvazi is not less than powerful, but th podyaki. Praise, words of praise are the best incentive for children, even if they smell the stench of their fathers. To the point, the material concern is not such a value for a child, like a mother’s mother’s or a mother’s daughter.
- Do not forget that you are a father, that you are the eldest and dosvіdchenishy for your child. Overworldly friendly views often lead to the fact that the child ceases to accept you like a zahisnik, a head man in this. Tobto is required to show great gnuchkіst.
It is important to learn how to respond correctly to a problem, to look at it from the sides, including from the position of a child. In this mood, it is necessary to turn around obov'yazkovo, and then, and children will no longer need to stand up to their fathers.
The power of a special butt
Children do not have to react with a dutiful rank to a simple explanation of why it is necessary to behave like this. It’s better to wiggle on a special butt, even if this way is more effective, the lower the number of words is better.
Like a child in 6 years, you can’t hear, it’s possible, you can listen to the arguments, explain the filling. It is especially important to demonstrate justice to the pidlіtkovu vіtsi, you know that you have the strength to reconsider your decision, as if it was unverifiable, and waive for pardon.
Once, practically, the skin of the father can get stuck with the problem of disobedience. However, do not fall into the vіdchai and virіshuvati power, rather vibuduvat vіdnosini with the child so that the conflicts do not reach the point of inversion.
In addition, think about what a good eared child is. Even deyaki show disobedience in response to the normal passage of age-old crises, and even if children can’t be compared, it’s possible that they don’t get independence and that exercise of self-development.
And, nareshti, you yourself have grown up, you are guilty of watching a constructive behavior. Wait a moment, that stupidly vimagati in the presence of a child can hear and feel, as if the fathers do not zavzhd vykonoyut obіtsyanki, zminyuyut without a strong present of vimogi and do not try to act small.
Reading 8 min.
The very period of 8 years to become especially important in child psychology. At this hour, the thought of a child is actively being formed, they are already beginning to actively establish the difference between the articles and the power of belonging. In order to get rid of problems in mutual relations with their children, the fathers are responsible for the nobility of the psychological peculiarities of the difficult life of a child.
Boy at 8 Rocks feels like a grown-up hero
Actual nuances of psychological development of children in 8 years
The boy and the girl in each of them begin to position themselves and manifest themselves in a different way. At the same time, in 8 years, children begin to form an objective assessment of their own actions, that of what is being observed. The child of 8 years is doubtful about the correctness of the vchinkiv of his fathers, to that on the TV screen you can see an absolutely opposite picture. Superechki with fathers in the new can communicate through those who have read the wines from the book, or having watched on the TV important information for the new, how to disperse from the thoughts of the fathers. The point of the dawn of the fathers and readers of the conflict, scho vinnik, do not run away.
In 8 years, the child's psyche is broken, the child cannot streak emotions that have been healed, showing unstrimanity.
8 years - the age of emotional instability At this hour, the father is guilty, buti is especially respected before how long the boy spends in front of the TV screen or reading a book. It is also important to change the programs, to marvel like wine, as well as the topics of books for reading. Obviously, the best option would be, like a boy and a girl, to choose the main heroes of their fathers, and not movie heroes. To whom you have adopted a baby, who has become independent, to the priority tasks of skin care.
The lad needs a good father A joy for the fathers: it is not easy to earn such a trust in a child 8 years old, for whom show borderline honesty with her, a wide interest to її special suffocation, to create a sleeping hobby, as if it would make you, come to the aid of the children asked for food, like a school , openly tell about your life at yoga vіtsі.
Special motivation
8 fates are turning points in the life of a skin child. The lad wastes his naїvnіstnost without being in the middle at the occasion with otochyuchiy.
At the period of 8 years, the foundations of the ovnishnіkh and internal special sides of the schoolboy begin.
It is important for yourself at every stage to know the motivation of the child, who is starting to introduce the school: the practice of new knowledge, the ability to take good signs and the recognition of familiar one-liners. What is it that bothers a young schoolboy to pore over his assistants? This moment is even more important, let the little one reach the father to help him know the key to the perfection of his food.
The boy is guilty of his mother's special motivation until training Articles of authority in the development of this century
In the period of 8 years, the psychology of the child changes sharply, in it the special “I” appears. The child begins to be convinced, kim won't let us name the future, its own camp at the household. Children at whomever you want to begin to evaluate yourself and your ability adequately, without overdoing it. The stinks start to make more homework, sound lower.
Learning is given easier to a girl, to a boy who has a difficult period of re-evaluation of rich important speeches. The lad is not sitting on the right side, sitting the lesson calmly, just not in the mind, and the boys are the most noisy at the breaks. If the lad does not sound to the order of that discipline, then it will be more smoothly to call to the next pіznіshe you. The child practically ceases to wear respect and becomes his clothes. You don’t give up respect for the bullshit, you can easily wear torn speeches, which you can’t say about a girl, for which a good-looking look becomes especially important.
Often at 8-9 pm the boys spend their interest until the beginning In 8 years, the boy is weakly aware of his special responsibility for those who are expected. Vikonannya obov'yazkovyh household chores praise the least. The child can just forget about them. The lad does not worry about the school badges, and the axis about the household chores of the fathers is brought to the knowledge through the help of acquaintances. It is not easy for a child to go through this psychological period.
The lad worries about girls of the same age with sharp changes in mood - from full self-singing to non-singing.
In the plan for the accumulation of the vocabulary stock, the boy is the leader, and even in 8 years, the accumulated word stock of the girls has enough words to evaluate subjects, and in the opposite position, the words that vyslovlyuvannya, which are recognized for the transmission of diy, are rooted in drink.
Children need to get accustomed to order Important moments for fathers
Children of this century spend most of their free time in active games, in sports. The girls are encouraged to take up more music, figurative art, and reading. At the same time, a child can go into gypsy sports, acrobatic groups and sports gymnastics. It's an hour, if the little ones need to be in the eyes of the authorities, die. The fathers do not hurry up with a critical assessment of the wounds of their children, so as not to injure them inadvertently. It is necessary to give the hand the ability to independently beat the impersonal simple deeds.
Going in for sports is the best way out of energy The fathers act as a conductor, they are guilty of telling children, teach them to independently evaluate their streams. A detailed analysis of children's vchinkіv will help to report on the parts of the situation, to teach the child to recognize the traces of his children and his lack of action.
Self-analyzing the vlasnі vchinki, the child can take action on the basis of a special impulse, the child is more aware and disciplined.
At the 9th birthday, the little ones can pretend to be a movchun from a balakuchoy child, keep a distance between themselves and fathers. It might be shameful for you, that the fathers will teach yoga from the school. When splintering a schoolboy with his one-year-olds, I take away a lot of different information, filtering is simply necessary. For the time being, the fathers themselves are given the role of a filter, which helps them to show themselves to the super-smart flow of information.
Vіdnosini with odnolitkami come to the fore For whom it is important to make some corrections for the child who has grown up. Vіn has grown up, no longer sees a children's garden, many who know that I have grown up. On yoga behavior are superimposed the same frame of mindfulness, through which they blame the actions of the father's child at this turning point. Malyuk tries to analyze constantly, as it happens in a specific skin situation with peers, at the school walls, with close friends. As a rule, this interval of time passes with children in a remarkably calm manner.
School adaptation
The readiness of the little one to school is always recognized by the minds of rahuvat, write, read. The role of the psychological preparation of children before school is very important. The stench is guilty psychologically attached to the fact that my life changed in a cardinal way. The fathers are guilty of reporting zusil, so that the child went to school with the joy of that thirst for knowledge. It is necessary to show congestion in young children, and in special cases, thoughts and behavior with friends.
Dovіrchi stosunki with a boy - it's very important It is necessary to realize that the schoolboy is a child, as if he is going through the stage of uninterrupted development.
As if your child didn’t have a lot of lessons, help him to vikonate the task, untie them. Reportingly explain what needs to be done here, especially check the way. To evaluate such a child's support.
A young schoolboy can take away bad badges through his fear of getting a pardon, through inconsistency in the correctness of his behavior at the school walls. If you constantly criticize your child for low marks, then you can close yourself in yourself through your failure. It is necessary to help the little ones in the cherry folded heads, to yearn for the success of these subjects, as they are given to you with ease. Batkiv's praise is a hard stimulus for further successful education at school.
Vіdnosini among the team is more important for each other Nadalі, in case of zatknennі z raznimi inexorable difficulties, the little ones know exactly what to believe and help in a new one, they can easily get into trouble with the mustaches on their way.
Peculiarities of the Batkiv Vihovannya
Modern methods that directly vihovannya strongly vіdіznyayutsya vіd tіh, yakі shche vzvezdіvіnі nayprogresivnіshimi recently. The Internet and television are present in the life of a skin schoolboy, but there is information that comes from the Internet, and an hour, spent behind the screen, is to be clearly controlled by the fathers.
Old men are responsible for controlling the lad on the Internet Batkivske vyhovannya kholopchikiv and dіvchatok at tsey period vіdіzniaєєєє. Mom is guilty of step by step to the most important household chores, preparing food, cleaning up the booth, needlework. With this, the girl is guilty of the nobility, which they value and blame not for the discipline, but for those who won in the life of the fathers. Praise the girl generously, and not those who are doing it.
Control over the space of TV broadcasts of shoes The batkivska assessment of the results is especially important for the lads. You already think to yourself like you are about grown-up people who are built to replace your father or your older brother for a human work. In certain situations, the fathers blame superchicks about the steps of self-reliance of their little tit in 8 years, about the inter-permissiveness.
In case of rich mothers, it’s necessary to simply let the titmouse in, and the fathers carelessly squeeze on the tit, zmushyuyuchi vykonuvat tі dії, like you do not fit.
The main help, like a child, hangs out with each other to his fathers, enjoys more freedom and self-reliance in behavior, accepting decisions from the authorities. It is necessary to give him such freedom, encourage him to show independence and develop sovereign independence.