Problems of fostering children in asocial families. Diploma work Social work with asocial sіm'єyu. Variants of the father's behavior

It has long been seen that alcohol abuse and especially chronic alcoholism of the fathers do not go unnoticed for children. Vchenі, posterіgayuchi in children vіkom vіkі vіznі іnіkі piatstvі batkіv, shiver visnovok, schо, virostayuchi, so children can't vikonuvaty povnіstі hulkії functions, іkіn them kіlі vіlstvo suspіlstvo u budnemu.

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Main part:
1. Defects in the birth of children from the side of fathers:
1.1 No occasion for children
1.2 Utisk of children
1.3 Znevaga
2. Peculiarities of the psycho-emotional formation of the particularity of the child
3. Typical signs of a child being diagnosed with alcoholics for behavior in school
4. Features of molding of special features
Visnovok
Bibliography

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Entry

Main part:

1. Defects in the birth of children from the side of fathers:

1.1 No occasion for children

1.2 Utisk of children

1.3 Znevaga

2. Peculiarities of the psycho-emotional formation of the particularity of the child

3. Typical signs of a child being diagnosed with alcoholics for behavior in school

4. Features of molding of special features

Visnovok

Bibliography

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It has long been seen that alcohol abuse and especially chronic alcoholism of the fathers do not go unnoticed for children. Vchenі, posterіgayuchi in children vіkom vіkі vіznі іnіkі piatstvі batkіv, shiver visnovok, schо, virostayuchi, so children can't vikonuvaty povnіstі hulkії functions, іkіn them kіlі vіlstvo suspіlstvo u budnemu.

"It's a great way to go through the people, Yak Volodіє Gamonіynaya Dovitcom I good was brought to the Navigolishnya ї іzichichnya, the Social Heat, Yaku Rosisyi Sodbnosti, correctly, rightly on Zmіni Navroichny Head, Yakschko, not to be at the interlocks, with yoga zdіbnosti, contributing to the welfare of the suspіlstva. A healthy and growing generation, therefore, may be especially important for skin care, and save children from pouring on them p'yanits-batkiv - the task of the sovereign vaga. Children gain the basis of vihovannya from their own. Sim'ya forms the specialty of a person. Preschool children, the school, like a child, give only additional touches to the main family education.

In order to see a better picture of the healthy members of the family of an alcoholic in my work, I looked at the reasons for the introduction of alcohol, especially female alcoholism, the health of children and mature members of the family. So I respect for the need in this context to look at the traces of becoming an alcoholic for a child.

Healthy grown-up members of the family (mentally and physically) are supported without any intermediary, as in the development of children, as well as in the far end of alcoholism.

The problem of familial alcoholism evokes particular anxiety. Children suffer from alcohol abuse before us. Negative effects may be conceived at the station of sleep, alcohol intake of matir'yu for an hour of pregnancy - all this can lead to various defects in the development of rich organs and systems of the child's body. Particularly often guarded by damage to the central nervous system. In addition, in case of family alcoholism, Rozum's age often comes with severe damage to respect, memory, emotional-volitional sphere.

The unfriendly infusion of fathers' alcoholism on children is not considered biologically inspired. Family alcoholism forms a complex of negative macrosocial impacts on the child. Therefore, if the maturation of the organism seems to be quite safe, then the problem of social disadaptation of such children arises. Emotional-behavioral and special development in children, born as a result of improper development, complicates the formation of normal interpersonal characteristics and social adaptation in general.

At its core, social disadaptation is an oppressive unacceptable factor that tightens the special behavioral disorder. Vaughn spryaє shaping stable psychopathic states, asocial forms of behavior. At the link with tsim, the importance of nabuvaє svoєchasna is especially important and purposeful work with such children. It is a pity, dosvid show that teachers, like mass schools, and specialize ^ insufficient knowledge about the specific difficulties of developing and teaching children from alcoholic families. Therefore, more detailed investigation of the characteristic disorders of the mental and special development of alcoholic children is necessary, with the method of further subtraction of the results for the improvement of methods for the correction and development of such children.

main part

1. Defects in the birth of children from the side of fathers

1.1 No occasion for children

Under the unworthy beasts of mind, either the oppression of children, or the fear. The pressure of children is manifested in the most inflicted bodily ears and image, sexual mischief and/or emotional trauma inflicted on them. Children can give a hard physical punishment, beat with a belt or fists, throw on a pidlog, beat their heads against the wall, which cause fractures, bleeding, hematomas until they appear. Emotional trauma is caused as a result of permanent likes, screams, images, swearing at children of obscene nicknames, harsh criticism, slander, invisible fights with younger brothers and sisters or permanent ignorance. Nehtuvannya means the absence of care for a child, wanting a minimum sight: give the necessary support for the life of eating, clothes, living and medical services, and bring the absence of satisfaction of your emotions, social and intellectual needs.

1.2 Utisk of children

The fathers, who stoosovuyut physical strength against their children, give a ruinivny infusion on them as emotionally, and physically. Deyakі children perish in the presence of a bitter occasion; others for all life are covered with stones. Hatred, directed at a child, to torment and lakaє yogo, leaving deep wounds in the soul, so as not to fight. As a result, pathological timidity, timidity, passivity develop, fortune-telling, dullness and coldness, indifferent lack of love for others develop. Podlіtki, yakі recognized violence from the side of the fathers, with a great step of ymovіrnostі their time to force violence on the vіdnoshennia to the fathers.

1.3 Znevaga

Nehtuvannya with the widest kind of zhorstoy occasion with children and pidlіtkami. It can take different forms. Under the physical knowledge, it is necessary to understand the need to ensure the safety of the child, sufficient food, or the right diet, which gives life to the minds, clothes, the necessary medical help, a good life, and the vicons of the elementary, they could have special hygiene. Emotional znevaga - the lack of respect, the lack of love, the turbot and the tenderness, the lack of satisfaction, the need for children from the praised її dіy, known її merits and friendship. Intellectual anxiety can be manifested by allowing children to miss classes systematically without reason, by lack of care for their education and mindfulness for homework, by the availability of necessary materials that stimulate their intellectual development. Social znevaga can include a lack of respect for the social activity of children, before the count of splintering and comrades for games, the lack of employment of children with brown types of activity, or the lack of acknowledgment of children to life in the households of other people. Under the term moral ignorance, such phenomena are toiling at the sight, like the absence of a tribute to a child, a positive butt, be it morally vihovannya.

2. Peculiarities of the psycho-emotional formation of the particularity of the child

Injecting alcoholism into sіm'yu blatantly swears at the creation of the wrong vikoristannі 3 elements, necessary for the healthy functioning of sіm'ї: the creation of family rules, roles and cordonivs. The rules in the family, which are poisoned by alcohol, are followed by 2 direct directions: it is necessary to do it, it is necessary to be sure. It is not necessary to lead to a chaotic situation, in which you are consciously arrogant, safe. Children can take on roles that are not powerful for them, for example, the role of a father, and at such a time they can show the signs of weakness, irritability and spontaneity. The cordoni of the dermal penis sim'ї razmitі chi nadto regіdnі. At times, the members of this family are inaccessible to each other, the communication is almost fenced.

Alcohol, which tends to deprive the other side of the medical aspects, leads to a lot of problems. The main part of all types of violence, vandalism, and the administration of corporeal ears in this case is associated with drinking.

It can be seen that there are no universal rules of behavior in the family for alcohol abuse: what is good and what is bad is determined hour by hour. To lay everything in the form of the physical and emotional self-confidence of the fathers, and not in the form of a home-made philosophy. Sometimes a child is taken away for those who were once allowed to work, and, perhaps, were respected by laudable ones. Vіdnosini mіzh grown up and children also may have even the insignificance of the character. The stench can be imperturbable and vociferous, so that the child feels better in this, play with her, pamper her. Sometimes you start talking to a child in a mentoring tone, and sometimes you override the authoritarian style of communication.

Life in sim'ї, as if it were poisoned by alcohol, not peredbachuvana. Danі batkami obіtsyanki often do not vykonuyutsya. What has been said earlier is crossed out, the child can be called to the fact that it’s a breeze, as if it’s trying to tell fortunes about obitsyane. As if the father was talking about it, and then we don’t turn on the same respect, or just forget about what was said, the child can blame the sumniv from his memory. Distrust develops in children, as a result of which the stink is not revealed to anyone, which makes them feel like rubbish, fear, guilt, unhandedness and zadroshchiv to "normal" one-year-olds. Clinicians value such cases as a group of high risk for the development of emotional problems.

Often the fathers can’t settle down at the thoughts of what kind of decision, a broken thing said. Welding, which accompanies the differences in thoughts, makes the situation worse. The child thinks that it is the cause of welding and is afraid of nasledkiv, yakі can lie in the fact that there will be images physically, or in words, or even worse, the fathers can grow up. All the same, it echoes a sense of innocence and fear, because there is nowhere to flow and there is no one to know in the air. So the very grave like anger can be a father's baiduzhist. The successes of a child can be accepted as if you were aware, so try to call on your father’s respect and affection. A similar behavior of the fathers in this situation is perceived by a child as very negative. In addition, self-esteem is deformed. If they don’t talk about you and don’t value you, then doubts will inevitably creep in, but what do you know for sure? In my opinion, perhaps, the main way to slander the fathers is to turn the respect of the foul filthy behavior that calls out the father's anger. Anger, which, in every case, means even if I have respect. Better than nothing.

Emotional inseparability, domineering people, who are evil with alcohol, you can inadvertently screw up the mentality of a child, you can be afraid to sit on the knees of a drunken and smelling of alcohol father and listen to talk about those, how much you love your child and you are not trusted. Often, the spirits of the father, like a pendulum, oscillate in the form of a rage, I regret it to myself, to the point of increased aggressiveness to some extent. Child, maybe, you know, that with an unmistakable rank, this scene can end with it, that the anger of the father turns against him. Therefore, the child does not dare to drink through the fear of punishment, the embarrassment of experiencing the camp of a perelak, "unclean conscience" from the drive of his unacceptable father that yoga behavior. The need of a drunken grown-up in tenderness and intimacy with a child does not always appear in harmony with the mind. Weasel can grow into sexual envelopment, more so, that the limit of intercourse in alcoholic vapors is acceptable. Lars Söderling says, really, you can talk about the manifestation of many steps on the way to incest, as the most obvious manifestation of the emotional non-differentiality of a powerful person, as evil as alcohol. It is accepted that it is taken into account that 50 cases of incest are due to the presented scheme.

The psyche of a child, of course, in such a situation, appears to be nasty, it looks like a shame. Zgvaltuvannyu can know and friends of the child, as if they stumbled into a new house. The stench can also become an object of obscene zhartiv, or others that are inappropriate for them. Otherwise, the father can put himself on a smile in the eyes of children, as if to behave stupidly and unworthy. The child step by step asks for friends, respecting for the better to stay at their home, and the shards and there are most often a similar situation, then similar to the zustrics are more and more often found in the doors of the nearest door.

The reaction of the fathers, if they are poisoned by alcohol, on those other things that the children are ill (through the peculiarity of alcoholism, like falling ill) are not transferring and inconsequential, they can be different in a fallow mood. You don’t know the child, how many thoughts that day are taken away, and how - condemned. This disorganizes your psychic development, the skills of the correct response to those who are another manifestation, those of friends, those who listen to them, do not vibrate.

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INSTITUTE OF DISTANCE PROMOTION QUALIFICATION

disciplines: Global pedagogy and psychology

on the topic: Problems of the child's recovery from the wrong family

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Dmitrieva Natalia Ivanivna

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k. psychol. Sciences, Assoc.

Shelepanova N.V.

Novosibirsk - 2015

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In the rest of the years, the successors more and more often pay respect to the specifics of the camp in the household of the poor families. Under the term “incomplete families”, such categories of families are understood, with some self-sufficient father living with a child (children) of an incomplete life, and carrying for him (s) the main vidpovidalnist. In such a rank, the family is not perfect - the family is with one of the fathers and children. At the same time, a different family is a small group with private, different connections, there is no traditional system of vodnosin: mother - father, father - children, children - grandmother and didus.

Sim'ya is a product of the suspensory system, it changes from the suspense system.

Gostroy suspіlnoy problem є razluchennya. For an hour this year, there were few friendly couples, as if they go to separation at the first sign of great life difficulties. However, it is still a bet that one of the parties will do everything in order to protect the hatred, and the other side, in case of which, is less likely to be noticed by the Duma about the power of guilt. Є, nareshti, bet, as a counter-indication for life.

As a mass manifestation of separation, the negative role played by the change of nationality, and in the development of children, plays an important role. First, later on, the productive period of a woman's life changes. In another way, at the time of the near-by first child, the hour of the first child's birth can be richly missed (which is negligible from a medical point of view). Thirdly, hostile women in the family, which change the separation, can get stuck in the reproductive attitudes of the woman, wanting in other situations to be able to neutralize the woman’s mothers and create a new family.

Separation is assessed as a benefit only to that lapse, as if it changes the guilt of the child, put an end to the negative impact on the psyche of the child of friendly conflicts. Sim'ya can live, as if it were filthy vykonu zagali, not vykonu be-like your functions, krim batkivskoy. Sim'ya in the world, as if she ceases to work those, for the sake of which she is created - vihovannya children.

Young people cry out especially for anxiety. There is no one to talk about the infantilism of the young, the weakening of a little bit of evidence, about the stagnation of the fathers, which will weaken this. For young families, the problem of dosville is relevant.

Ochіkuvannya chіtini - sravzhnє vyprobvannya for kokhannya, like the people - vyprobuvannya on mіtsnіst sіmeynyh ties. A lot of love falls apart in the first river after the appearance of a child, falls apart from the initiatives of people, does not show off the fatherhood. More precisely, choloviks, their ism seems to be the strongest for everything else.

The young man after the nation of the little one does not have the right to look after him, is obliged to help the squad in її innumerable turbots about the child, otherwise she herself indulges herself with rich joys. Giving all the attention to the little one for one squad, the person himself does not give him the opportunity to occupy someone else, including the house and himself. For such a state, for such furnishings, this will inevitably cause discomfort. A person begins to feel zayvim, uncommon, hated, not suspecting that he himself is guilty of someone else. And as a result of a rehabilitated, a person more and more often begins to think that he can change everything for his bazhanny. Yak? So break up! I todi - new freedom, everyday turbot, no cry, new wine - cohany, unity, glance ...

With the arrival of a child to a woman, it’s all-mighty to come, so often to bring the most beloved person for that hour to enter another plane with her. And even if this child is not quiet, it’s only possible to sleep, sleep, and don’t deliver any special troubles to the fathers, but such a child, which means sleepless nights, and innocent sight, and nerves, then the cream of emotion and lie down all the time of the mother’s year, all the time .

It dawned on me that a person, as if dissatisfied with the drive, did not sew on a gudzik, or a shirt that was not worn, then like a child, it was like crying, mothers were not happy with their years, they cried out, softly, seemingly, not kindly. I’m a young mother, I didn’t hang out, I was tired, it was possible, I reacted to the claims of a person, it’s not like I wanted to. Obviously, the squad could know other words and another tone ... but understand it.

Knowing a compromise is more important than ever. Introducing hisism, intransigence, making a child stuck up is less likely to lead to a sharpening of strife.

Nepovni sіm'ї - a pity, a pity, dosit wider. Especially often you can learn today from our support of self-sufficient mothers. The clerks of the blame for the wrong families have looked more closely, and now we will try to find out if the problems are typical for such families.

Glava1. Issue

1.1 Sim'ya as a social institution

Sіm'ya - sotsіalna grup, scho volodіє іstorichno Pevnyi organіzatsієyu, members yakoї pov'yazanі shlyubnimi chi sporіdnenimi vіdnosinami (and takozh vіdnosinami schodo vzyattya dіtey on vihovannya) spіlnіstyu pobutu, vzaєmnoyu moral vіdpovіdalnіstyu that sotsіalnoyu neobhіdnіstyu, yak obumovlena require at suspіlstva physical and spiritual creation of the population.

Vidpovidno to the appointment of the philosophical vocabulary: "Sim'ya - tse middle (small social group) suspіlstva, the most important form of organization of a special pobutu, based on a friendly union and native ties, then on rich-sided connections between such people, be friends with such people, brothers and sisters and other relatives, like to live together and lead a coherent state”.

Following these appointments, it is possible to grow visnovok, which is a more complex aspect of illumination, in which there are 4 characteristics:

Sim'ya is the middle (small social group) of the household.

Sim'ya is the most important form of organizing a special pobutu.

Sim'ya is a friendly union.

Sim'ya - rich-sided friendship with relatives: fathers, brothers and sisters, grandfathers and grandmothers just to live together and lead a common state.

The suspіlstvі of the greatest breadth has a nabula of nuclear family. Vaughn can buti:

· Elementary - three members: a man, a team and a child. Such a family can be, at one’s own place: completely (at the warehouse there are offended fathers and wanting only one child) and unfamiliar (the homeland of only one child, or a family, which accumulates only fathers without children);

· Warehouse - a nuclear family, in which sprats of children sway. Warehouse nuclear family, number of children, following as a union of a number of elementary ones.

Remain two decades in the sphere of family and sluzhny vіdnosin, there are low negative tendencies, as they can give this purpose to realize themselves in the whole world. The stench turns in the offensive:

· Changing the value of a school, especially children with equal values ​​of material well-being and prosperity;

· Newsletter about “lightweight”, thoughtless girls;

· Nerazuminnya deyakoї part of the youth problems and difficult family life, mutual rights and obov'yazkіv at sіm'ї;

· Growing up a large number of families with one child, who cannot take care of a simple birth of the population;

· Increase in the number of abortions and all the consequences associated with them;

· Growth of unfamiliar families, in which children wiggle one of the fathers;

· Increasing the number of people and women, so that they cannot re-enter the second club;

· Growing alcoholism, which strongly inspires family children and leads to the birth of children with various birth defects and anomalies;

· Significantly increasing separation from ethical and psychological motives and causes of sexual illiteracy, making friends, and, also, dissatisfaction with the intimate side of a friend's life.

At zv'yazku z tsim stan sim'ї as a social institution can be assessed as a crisis.

Regardless of all changes, as if I recognized my family for all my reasons, two characteristics remained unchanged:

1) Sim'ya as a social institution of welfare. Suspіlstvo zatsіkavlene like sіm'ya that organіzatsіya tsy social institute.

2) Sim'ya as the minimum social group. Members of this organization are zatsіkavlenі in її organіzаtsії protyazh uhogo life.

Also, it is possible to develop a new vision for those who are already unstable in the establishment of the Institute of Sim's in the household. vіdbuvaєtsya process of differentiation sіm'ї and suspіlstva as a whole. Changes are intertwined with all sides of a suspenseful life, including those of a family blue.

1.2 Causes of guilt

Nutrition about incomprehensible families is more relevant to the fact that they contain a significant part of that population, which has not accumulated natural, mortgaged in the very nature of family-loving people, think of life. Tse children, without a father (or mothers), people have grown up, like they don’t make their own cіm'ї and continue to live together with their fathers. Such a camp does not only make the material life easier for them, but it allows them a full spiritual life, as if it could give a happy friendship.

Sim'ya - founded on a school or a real controversy of an association of people, po'yazanih spіlnіstyu pobutu that mutual vidpovіdnіstyu.

Nepovna s_m'ya - s_m'ya, which is formed from a single mother (self-made father) from a child (children), a separated woman (separated person) from a child (children), a widow (widow) from a child (children).

Incomplete family is a small group with private, incomprehensible links, there is no traditional system of marriages: mother - father, father - child, child - grandmother and child.

Otherwise, you hang out, not the same sim'ya - tse sim'ya, de mone alone with the fathers.

The marriage of different families is very heterogeneous and varied. The widowhood (the death of one of your friends), separation, and poshlyubna people were traditionally venerated by their accusations.

You can see the main types of inconsistent symbols:

o poshlyubnaya;

o orphaned;

o separated;

o fell apart.

They also rozraznyayut batkivsku and maternal sіm'ї, remain to become the absolute majority of the middle nepovnyh families.

The growth of incomprehensible families without intermediary pov'azane zі the sphere of love-family vіdnosin:

· Change of moral norms in the gallery of mutual articles;

Rozpovsyudzhennya doshlyubnykh zv'yazkіv,

· Changing the traditional roles (family) of a person and a woman;

· Vtrata with my own function;

· Unpreparedness of young people to sleep;

· Confirmation of the help of a suitable partner;

alcoholism and drug addiction.

Vihovannya children have nepovnіy sіm'ї maє low idiosyncrasies. In the light of the presence of one of the fathers, who was left alone, he had to take on himself the manifestation of all the material and butt problems of this. In case of this, it is also necessary to fill in the deficit of the congenital injection for children. It is very important to follow all of them. Therefore, most of the wrong families are aware of the material and logistical difficulties and are stuck with pedagogical problems.

The psychological climate of the unequal sim's is rich in why they are characterized by ill experiences, which are blamed after spending one's fathers. Most of the wrong families are blamed through the father's watchful eye. Mothers rarely go on streaming and grabbing their children; її rozcharuvannya and dissatisfaction are often uncommonly projected from the їхної spilnoy ї dityni. Another situation is possible, if the mother is naked in the role of an innocent victim, a child has stooped into it. If you don’t know too much, remember a little of the Batkiv’s pikluvannya and cross all reasonable borders: repel the child with an atmosphere of tedious caress and transcendental opika. In all similar moods, the spiritual atmosphere is simulta- neous and negatively signifies on the becoming child.

Importantly, those who, for the presence of one of the fathers of a child, have been allowed the possibility of a complete molding of the stereotype of the behavior of their state. So, due to the presence of the old man, the lad cannot be able to, on the nearest butt, bear the peculiarity of the person's behavior, and involuntarily take over the woman's rice. І for a girl's mother in this situation, she is embarrassed to take on the motherly role of that role of the daily father; as a result, the psychosexual development is superfluous. It has been established that more homosexual orientations grew up in different families.

The successors tried to find a factor that would help to relieve the development of a closed-loop depression and depression, which are typical for low-income and non-low-income families. Vonya Wonii, Shaho in Vipadku, Kolya Puzyuyuki Materi in Non-Council Mali Mali Robot, Yaka їM, was like, їїkhnі dіti vіddіzniyiyvniy R_VERNY Self-shifts that Silnіsti SMEYNOї єDnostі Tu SolіdarnosTi Porivnyano zei, Chija Motherі not perforated by a robot Viklikali . Pratsiyuchi single mothers give a particularly strong blow to their daughters, as they give great importance to special and material independence, the prestige of the family is raised at school by the greatest success, but the daughters of non-working mothers from other families.

All this does not mean, however, that this is not the same as obov'yazkovo and is unfavorable for the divine aspect. Significant problems can be blamed on the wrong sim's with a greater sense of urgency, lower on the top, but for the first time, I don't yell, so the stench is obov'yazkovo blaming. Quite often the psychological atmosphere is friendly and creates difficulties in the formation of healthy specialties. Buvay and navpaki: formally novіy, but emotionally dysfunctional sіm'ї child stikаєєє z more serious psychological problems.

In this way, the family is not perfect, although it sticks with low objective difficulties, there may be sufficient potential for the full development of children. Batkovi, through the surroundings, as he appeared as the head of an incomprehensible family, it is necessary to firmly ascertain the psychological peculiarities of the situation and not allow the stench to lead to negative consequences. Dosvіd bagatioh prosperous impovnyh sіmey svіdchit, scho it is possible.

1.3 Problems of the foundation of incompetent families

It reveals a number of problems that many different families face, to which social and economic, pedagogical, medical and psychological lie.

Among the problems of non-common families in most vipadkivs, the problem of an economic nature is especially acute (material difficulties, as they may be). The sizable budget is formed from individual labor income, additional pensions, compensatory payments and payments that are appointed by the state, child support after separation, gifts from pennies and speeches, products from relatives and friends.

Oskіlki most often with the head of such a woman, then varto give respect to the policy of employment in the country. Today is the day when women from working positions on the stock exchange work or in the sphere of low-paid budget institutions. The need for morning and childbirth often encourages women to be active and to ask for more paid work or additional income.

In the rest of the hour, the transfer of social guarantees and the decrease in the rank of social protection were significantly shortened. A woman is a mother, like a child without a father, she herself is guilty of doing good for her family. I will especially need to take into account the incompetent sіm'ї, to grow up children with rehabilitative standards in physical and mental development, and even more so for children with disabilities. A rich woman vvazhayut vyhovannya that watch over the children to their main confessions and vіdsuvayut on another plane of professional success and career. At that very hour, material well-being and often busyness of two robots use self-sufficiency matir in vihovannia and sight of a child, and guilt in giving yourself.

Navit the found-be-living woman in an unfamiliar family, physically I can’t have enough time to see her child. Through the transcendental employment and labor revantagence of the mother, the child is given to herself.

Children, like swaying in monobatic families, have helped the butt of a man and a woman in family, which negatively affects their socialization in general and the preparation for the future family life of the zocrema. Pedagogy evaluates the identification of children with their fathers as one of the main criteria for the effectiveness of family education. With whom the child turns to accept the moral and ideological norms of his fathers. Zdіysnennya tsієї skієї vyhovnyh protsess іn nepovnіy sіm'ї deformed y zv'yazku z vіdsutnіstyu one z batkіv.

In Batkiv's unfamiliar families, to the listing of more problems, the daily caress of a mother's caress is added, which can be improved for children.

At the borders of the vikhovnoy activity, it is easy for one of the fathers to add complete control over the child and the fire to add to their behavior. Efficient vihovannia is caused by a number of objective reasons: the primordial triad of the family collapses: “father + mother + child”; The main reason is the transcendental employment in robots, which does not allow giving sufficient respect to children.

A social characteristic is advancing, as it will require respect for the welfare of children with children of incompetent children, due to the health of the rest. Veterinarians-pediatricians, who keep children healthy, come to a new state of mind: children from different families are much more likely to get sick and chronically ill. Zhіnka zmushena, persh for everything, vikonuvaty funktsії material sіmії sіm'ї na shkoda traditіyno maternal ob'yazkam vyhovannya zmіtsnennya zdorov'ya children. Statistically significant frequency of manifestation in incompetent sim's children (smoking, alcohol addiction), socially-pobutous and living innocence, lack of hygienic standards of life, failure to return to doctors in children with different ailments, self-exaltation is thin. .

Socio-economic problems of the Taman not all incomprehensible families; accepting their verses is simpler, lower socio-psychological problems present in the internal special sphere and the inter-special minded members of non-partisan families, our children.

Tse, first of all, the image, the depravity that seems to be vlasnoi incompetence, like children can recognize after the separation of their fathers. Quite often children ring to themselves at the break of their own. In a different way, feel sorry for the children, not the women (the shards of this unfamiliar family - mothers, one like a child), which is the cause of their hyperprotection. Pragnati not to allow the lowering of the life standards of their children among their relatives with children from prosperous families, mothers take on themselves the transcendental labor ambition, but through over-employment, at their own side, we cannot give them enough time for that respect. Often there are also anger, if the image of a colossal man, wine in disarray at home, a woman swears on her children, showing bitterness. Have some kind of friendly psychological climate in the same day.

In this hour, a new category of incomprehensible families has been expanded - incomprehensible expansions of families, as they are settled, as a rule, in the wake of a social catastrophe: the death of fathers of young children, the rebuking of fathers at the village, the relief of the fathers themselves - the most frequent the generation of great-grandfathers, the brothers onukiv, is excited for the morning of that resurrection. Such sіm'ї, obviously, may have a low income level; A number of folds of swearing by the filthy camp of the health of people of a frail age, with their weak adaptive stamina, invariably attach themselves to the reality of modernity: unfortunately, for an hour they cannot win their authority, control the situation, children often demonstrate deviance.

In this way, we can say that the number of unfamiliar families with skin fate is increasing, the number of separations is growing and the necessary specifics come in whenever the problems of such a weakly protected family group are resolved, as is not a common family.

Glava2. Improving the process of getting rid of the wrong onessim'ah that organization of social and pedagogical assistancewrong sіm'ї

2.1 Cleanse thoroughly the process of vihovannya from wrong families

vihovannya nepovny sіm'ya social

In order to prevent molding in the character of a child who wobbles in an unfamiliar family, it is necessary to take a low mind in the process of shaping. Vikonannya tsikh minds spryaє nayefektivnіshomu vyhovnym infusion nepovnoї sіm'ї shaping the specialness of the child. Why do you think?

One mind is the authority and special butt of the father. Under the authority of the next to understand the deep understanding of the father’s children, do good and svіdome vykonannya yogo vimog, pragnennya inherit yogo from everyone and listen to yogo joys. All the strength of a pedagogical father's spit on a child is based on authority. Ale wines are not given in nature, they are not created piece by piece, they are not conquered by fear, threats, but grow out of that whimsy. With the rise of evidence, the authority is being consolidated and progressively reduced and vindicated in the behavior of children. The divine power of the special butt of the father is enchanted by the psychological characteristics of children: the inheritance and concreteness of the mind. Children are unfamiliarly smart and inherit good, and filth, more inherit butts, lower morals. Therefore, such an important and powerful control of the father over his behavior, as he can serve the children as an example for succession.

It’s even more important that the mother (tato) didn’t think badly about the father (mother) of the child, she wouldn’t be out of it, so that the child can form a negative attitude to the mother (father) for the same reasons. Navpaki positive opinion about the father (mother) of the child spriyaє increase the authority of the father (mother), let him inspire the day, and the mother (father).

The authority of the old man is rich in why to lie down and in the wake of the children, in the interest of their life, to their little rights, joys and sorrows. Diti Cheat, Yaki is ready to be ready to compete at first, Yaki Rosumno to visit Vimoglifii IZ Proshochinnami, rightly їzinyuyu їkhnі Vcchinnya, Vmіyutya, Ekniuvati Bazhannya Ta Inttersi, Jump Speckovnya, SPIRIKIV SPIRY SPIRY. Children will need a smarter and stronger Batkivska kokhannya.

Another necessary intellectual є pedagogical tact of the father. The authority of the father is supported by її pedagogical tact. Pedagogical tact - tse good rozvinene pochutya pochtya s vіri u vozdzhennі s dіtmi. Vіn vіyavlєєєєєєєєєєєєє y vіnіlієєєєєє y vіnі і know nayblizhchiy slyah pochutіv і svіdomosti і children, vybrati effektivnі іhovnі go to їх sobistіstі, vrakhovy uchi ії і іndivіdualі і osoblivі, konechnі і studi otstavini. Vіn transferring dotrimannya rіvnovagi u kohannі that severity, znannya dіysnyh motives vchinkіv іdі, vіrne svіvіdnоsnіnі vymoglivostі z pogou і і dnostі іdіtіnі. The tact of the father is closely related to the tact of the children - for the better, you should go into behavior based on a strange and respectful attitude to people. A handful of wines manifests itself as an inheritance, viklikan with the butt of the elders, and then we begin to behave in a tactful way.

With the third mind, which is necessary in the process of vihovanya, you can see the culture I will live in an unfamiliar sim. The cultural understanding should include the correct stance between members of the non-partisan family, the reason for one alone, and to instill a reasonable organization of the whole life of the non-partisan family. When that child starts independently, rozmirkovuvat and evaluate the facts of that appearance, and the mother (tato) conveys to them life's knowledge, helping to establish itself in the right judgment and hatefully direct their thoughts. Talk with a child in the air and the heart of the atmosphere create closeness between the father and the children and become one of the causes of the father's infusion. The inadequacies of the vihovanni are often blamed there, de facto, the life of an incompetent and insufficiently organized life. Negatively signified on the nature of the moral qualities of children are the remnants of the old pobutu, which were saved in some incomprehensible families: incorrectly placed before the woman, alcoholism, zabobons and zabobons.

Fourth mind - knowledge of centuries and individual characteristics of children. Knowing the peculiarities of children allows the fathers to learn how to properly behave with them, increasing the viability for their development and safety, and the succession of the children to the side of all members of the incompetent family. Special pedagogical knowledge helps to develop the child's drinking habits, caution, the simplest forms of logical thought, cherubing the thunder and practice, understanding the causes of children's vchinkiv. The father’s information about the physiological and psychological characteristics of children of the early age helps them not only to talk about the protection of the health of the child, but also directly to the development of the development of ruhi, cultural and hygienic learning, mentality, activity, and splicing.

P'yata umova: satisfaction of needs in emotional contact with the father. Lyudina, as the origin of the suspile, is a peculiar form of orientation - directing to the mental image of another person. The need for "orientation" in the emotional mood of other people is called the need for emotional contact. Moreover, there is a need to talk about the basis of bilateral contact, in which the person is aware, that she herself is the subject of congestion, that other sounds are in tune with її powerful feelings. Such a sound emotional contact will require a healthy skin person, independent view, enlightenment, valuable orientations.

Shosta umova polagaє at the appointed fathers of their own needs the sense of life. Great problems are blamed on the bonding with the child, as the bondage became the only activity for the father, which realizes the need for the sense of life. The need for the sense of life characterizes the behavior of a mature person. Without the satisfaction of a consumer, a person cannot function normally, cannot mobilize all his comforts to the maximum. Satisfaction with such zdatnosti is due to obstructing for oneself the sense of one's butt, with a clear, practical and meritorious attitude to the praise of the person himself directly yogo diy. What does it mean, that a person will always see the deep meaning of his own life, his own life? Obviously, no, it is necessary to know the sense of your life. Satisfied, consume a sense of life, maybe a turbot about a child. Mother (father) or grandma can vvazhat, scho sense їхінування є spying on the physical camp and vihovannyam child. The stench can not convince anyone, respecting what the meta of this life is in another. However, happy people feel the stench only if they need it. Like a child, virostayuchi, go see them, the stench often mend the mind that "life has spent all sense."

Soma umova polagaє at the need for appointment, you need access. In deyaky mothers (batkiv) the child’s wiping is spurred by the so-called achievement motivation. Meta vihovannya polyagaє in order to achieve that which the fathers could not reach through the power of the necessary minds, but to the one that the stinks themselves were not sufficiently strong and stubborn. For example, mothers played the piano, but there were no minds for whom, and now children need to learn music intensively. Similar to the father's behavior is unaccounted for for her, the very element of hisism: "I want to form a child for my likeness, even if she won't continue my life ...".

The child is spared the necessary independence, pretends to adopt the power of your inclinations, the formation of special qualities. Ale wines can stand up against strangers even though they can, crying out to their mothers through unseen hopes, and as a result they blame deep conflicts in the waters between the child and the father.

Eight minds opine on the need for criticism of the implementation of the singing system of vihovannya. Inconsistent sіm'ї are stunned, demeti vihovannya hiba scho vіdsuvayutsya in the child's own and skerovayutsya and not so yogo itself, like the implementation of the system of vihovannia recognized by the father. Tse sound more competent, erudite fathers, like giving their children an hour and a lot of trouble. Having become acquainted with the system and various reasons, having trusted it, the stench pedantically and purposefully proceeds to its innocent realization. It is possible to trace the history of the formation of such heavenly goals, which are often blamed as a Danish singing fashion of formation.

Nine of the minds of the correct vihovannija polygaє at the molding of the singing special features of the child. Problems of independence come up in vipadkas, if the vihovannya follows the motif of the molding of a song bag for the old man. For example, the fathers are instilled in the fact that the son of the son is guilty of being kind, erudite and courageous. In quiet situations, if the values ​​of the fathers begin to supersede or with age-old features the development of a child, or with powerful individual features, the problem of independence becomes especially obvious. In the implementation of the singing system of learning, if the motive of learning the wind is seen in the child, then the distance, if possible, is no longer the special attitudes of the father and the peculiarities of the children, but rather the recommendations of the chosen system. But the problem of independence manifests itself quite clearly here. It looks like a problem of non-freedom of a child in the manifestation of power and individuality. Likewise, up to the regulation of the development of superimposed motives, the father’s motives surround the freedom of the development of the power of the child’s inclinations, complicate the development, destroying his harmony, and sometimes also promoting his overflow.

2.2 Organization of social and pedagogical assistance for disabled children in foster children

Metoyu socially-pedagogical help of incompetent sim'ї in vyhovannі child є nadannya help of child in the process її socializatsії and concoction of minds for її samorealіzatsії in suspіlstvі. For the attainment of the delivered meti fahіvtsyu, which zdіysnyuєtsya social and pedagogical work with incompetent families, it is necessary:

Zdіysnyuvat dіyalnіst z vyvchennya osobistosі dіtіnі and otochyuchih її її її people, pronіzlіzuvat vplіv sіtsіalnogo sredovishcha іn molding sоobistostі іtіnі;

Predict the development of the problem and її the outcome of the process of development and development of the child;

Organize mutually all members of a nonpartisan family on the basis of dialogue;

Help correct the pardons of vihovannya, which negatively pour into the development of a child;

Help mothers and children with incomprehensible sim'ї know and realize themselves;

For information about the possibilities of law, visit the defender of the wrong family;

Give help in the sphere of emotional and psychological health;

Form the moral and legal stability of the members of the nonpartisan family.

The object of the splurge in the incomprehensible family can be a child, the grown-up members of the family are the same incomprehensible family, scorched, like a team. The activity of a specialist, which creates a social and pedagogical work with a different family, like a new one, includes three main warehouses of social and pedagogical assistance: enlightenment, psychological, middle.

Illumination of warehouses by the social educator's duties: additional help for teachers and graduates. The help of the navchanni is directed to the destruction of the blamed family problems and the formation of the pedagogical culture of the fathers. Assistance to the vikhovannі is carried out by a social teacher, to us, to the fathers - the way of their consultation, as well as to the child in seeing the creation of special vikhovny situations for the accomplishment of their own help with the method of її zmіtsnennya.

The psychological warehouse also includes two components: social and psychological support and correction. Pіdtrimka straightened out the creation of a friendly climate in nіy most often under the hour of a short-hour crisis. Correction of inter-social behaviors is carried out mainly if there is violence against a child in this mental state, which will lead to the destruction of the neuro-psychological and physical state.

The middle component of social and pedagogical assistance includes three warehouses: assistance in organization, coordination and information. Assistance in the organization is directed to the organization of family doswell, which includes: organization of exhibitions and sales of vilified speeches, favorable auctions, clubs for interests, organization of family saints, competitions and others. this is the position of a specific child on it. Additional assistance in information is directed to the security of this information for the nourishment of social protection. It will be carried out at the consultation form.

At the robotic maє buti vikoristana emotsiyna podtrimka sіm'ї, shchob pom'yakshiti infusion of stressful podії and mobilization zusillya sіm'ї on podlannya crizi; illuminating the additional help, which is based on the given information for the stages of exit from the crisis, and the prospects for an incompetent family, supported by documentary facts. The effect of psychological support is available in individual cases. In addition, a different family can be trained to a program of family therapy and initial training, a method of improving the relationship between members of a different family and a variety of problems that appear in a crisis situation.

Nepovna sіm'ya may have its own peculiarity and social and pedagogical work with it vmagaє vrahuvannya all її characteristics: the problem of the surrounding member of the nepovno ї її є є zagalnoy problem for usієї nepovnoї sіm'ї; not povna sіm'ya - the system is closed, the skin can be taken away, navit a social teacher; nepovna sіm'ya is autonomous in his life. Fahivets z worki z sіm'єyu can't solve all problems for her, guilt is more to blame for activating її on the solution of family problems, trying to get to know the problem, that vinicla, create a mind for її successful vyrіshennya.

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Family life has evolved from old, long ago so that the father's clothes are divided between the father and the mother, and with whom they are divided unevenly. The most important turboti, with a look after the children and the cob knitting of the children, kick on the matir, like that, you can give the children more than an hour, lower father, so that, because of the tradition, you won’t call more to this, but for nature you can contribute more, softness, affection and respect. This close fate of the mother in the life of children in their early years is marked by moral її influx on them in the first years of their lives.

With fates, however, the meaning of this uninterrupted glance plays a moral role. Children begin to become self-reliant, they despatch themselves, continuing to demand help from fathers and grown-ups, but they joke about not only material support. Children are individual. In some, you will consume the relish, if you please your father, your mother better, in others - navpaki.

Vihovuvati - does not mean to say kind words to children, to instruct and instruct them, but to live in front of us like people. Whoever wants to vikonate his own children's shoes, deprive them of good memory about himself, as if he would serve posterity as a covenant, as if to live, that may be learned from himself.

Vihovannya children vmagaє the most serious tone, the simplest and the most broad. In these three yakosakhs, the truth of life is borderline.

Meta Vihovannia - to embrace the development of a person who exudes his wisdom, self-reliance, artistic productivity and love. It is necessary to remember that it is not possible for a child to be killed by a human being, but you can only take care of someone and not respect them, so that she herself would create a human being in herself.

SHOVNI PІDTAVI, PLEASE RECOMMANY RADIMATS WITH VIKHANNIY DITINI PID HOUSE OF SIMEYNY їMA LOVE: Cleanness, Ambulance and Songs of the words, I am pretended at the DIY DIY DIY, V_DStnіsti DIY DIY DIY DIY DIY DIY DIY DIYANNA OBSISTY DITINY IS POSITING MODERNANDNES yogo right of special insufficiency.

The whole mystery of family vihovannia lies in the fact that it is to give the child the opportunity to grow up on his own, to work everything on his own; grown up are not guilty of trouble and do not work for anything for their own special prosperity and satisfaction, but they are always put up to a child, from the first day they appear in the world, like a human being, with a full recognition of the individual and the insufficiency of the individual.

In such a way, in order for a child to sway in a different family, the mother (father) harmoniously developed, it is necessary to put respect on the vlasnі words and vchinki, on pobut sіm'ї, nobility and vrakhovuvati vіkovі and іndivіdualnі osobennostі іtіnі, і і і аn basis on the basis of vihovannya your system. Great respect should be given to the molding of the special features of the child, to allow the child to communicate with the father, which plays a significant role in the molding of the development of the child. For the mind that the father (mother) is not an asocial element of the welfare, she herself (herself) wants to take the fate of the vihovanni child. At the end, I want to show that there are no less unfamiliar families on the choir with the father in the super widening of the Duma, there are no less, less on the choir with women.

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As it was planned, associative sіm'ї vіdrіznyає evils of alcoholism, schilnіnіnі to drug addiction, prostitution and other deviant deeds. Immoral sim's characterizes vikoristannya її by members of violent visits to a plethora of close people. In real life, asocial and immoral manifestations often come together to help the establishment of the most vulnerable members of such families. At the bottom, there is a streak between physical violence and alcoholism and drug addiction. Showing that among the families, some of them are prone to incest, 35% are alcoholics. Such fathers tend to have low self-esteem, they stink in their father's life, they feel bad. Fathers with negative feelings of self-esteem can manifest violence in a fierce way, resenting themselves.

Significantly, what the unfortunate people associate with the community, let's think, with socialism. Judging from the data of the sociological survey conducted by the VTsVGD in Chernivtsi in 2013, the main criterion for which Russians classify a particular family as unfavorable is the fatherhood of fathers (41% of respondents). Drug addiction in the family was named by 6% of families, 4% of respondents considered that the main manifestation of family problems is an immoral way of life and only 1% of families considered welding as the main manifestation of family conflict.

The causes of alcohol abuse can be different. To typical їх the successors are listed:

• - Simeyna skhilnist;
• - special features;
• - Wash life that іn;

The most important factor in the appearance family of alcoholicsє pouring in the Batkiv middle. Doslidniki vvazhayut, schilnist to alcohol can go to the fathers, sho drink, or great, among them grew up a child. At yoga, images of a positive attitude to alcohol are fixed. For example, after the evening with alcohol, the father improved his mood, becoming good. As a result, the old man, who grew up, vibrated the attitude that “drink is good.” And vinikala and alcoholic staleness.

Addictions to alcoholic drinks can peculiarity of the special status of a person Before alcohol, mothers can have such a quality: infantilism, staleness, mental instability, weakness of character. For the help of a dance, people with such rice character often try to relieve stress, fix problem situations on a robot, in a family.

Another factor that spriyaє frequent use of alcohol, є unacceptable mind life. And you can have a well-ordered apartment, a bachelor’s life after separation, a low salary for an unloved job, and you can’t organize your own free time and that’s it.

There are more designated reasons to increase the risks of people's addiction to alcohol. However, the stench is not a priori. Chimalo vipadkіv, if in sim'ї an alcoholic grew up a child with a very negative attitude to alcohol. And in a grown-up life, it is practically not drinking alcoholic drinks.

The successors who deal with the problems of asocial families see songs types of family alcoholics. The main ones are: with a sleeping father, with a sleeping mother, and with a sleeping father) In a kіlkіsny vіdnoshenі, the first type prevails. Children in such families are either afraid of their fathers, pretending to be fit for them, or, on the contrary, be rude, avenge for the image of vismiyuvannya and anger. Quite often these sim's fall apart. It is also the position of a child to be known in the minds of other and third types of these families. Often, the children of the mother, who p'є, develop a complex of innocence, the stench is permanently felt like rubbish, humiliation, image. It is obvious that in sim'yah, de p'yut both batkiv, all tsі bіdi become more complicated. It is not uncommon that in such a situation the threat to health is blamed, and sometimes the life of a child. At the new one, statements are being made about the values ​​and moral foundations.

Social work with alcoholics be carried out by special social institutions, calling for a positive response to the problems of disadvantaged families. qia

the robot includes several steps. At the first stage diagnostics is carried out, as it is directed to revealing the causes of alcohol poisoning. To this end, psychological tests, rozmovi, and social biographies of members of the family are won.

At another stage social work is taking shape correction program. One of the most important ones, directly, is the strength of a special resource of an individual, weak to alcoholism. This can be achieved through psychological training, psychodrama and others. methods. In some cases, the social and labor rehabilitation of an alcoholic is successful. The next stage of workіz s_m'єyu, dezlovzhivat alcohol, є pіdbitya pіdmіzhny pіdsamku pіl_zatsiї korektsiynoї program. Then the specialist will make the necessary corrections and continue the process of social support of the problematic family until there are positive results.

The greatness of the trial should be brought to the knowledge of this, a member of the drug addiction. The most suffering from yoga are the closest people - fathers, squad (person), sisters, brothers, children. A lot of fahіvtsіv vvazhayut, scho chim more їх їх їмції at zv'yazku z this problem, tim less adequate for them will help. You can’t help a drug addict quit taking drugs, otherwise you should respectfully observe your reaction, try to change your way of life with a decisive rank.

Social work from sim'ami drug addicts transfer of a professional consultation. It is important to get rid of the drug addict that yoga family, which will really help with the most serious problems, next to the posture of relatives, friends, susidiv, znayomih. Vaughn may come in case of special preparation for such work. In different regions of Russia, there are special programs for the prevention of drug addiction and to help drug-addicted people. Vikoristannya їх possibilities can become a great help for the virishenny problems of families of drug addicts.

Ignoring the life of the necessary needs of the child, vikoristannya forcible entry into her form immoral looking sіm'ї. In today's Russia, there is still a significant scale of violence against children. Approximately 100 ths. children and children. Moreover, for the victims of children

decrease. Today, the victims of violence have an average age, which is no more than 12 years old. one

Violence in our country is no more than a share of asocial and materially disadvantaged families. For them, low number of psychologists (S.A. Belicheva, E.V. Knyazhka, I.V. Vorobyovoy), among children suffered from family violence, 50% - from the group of prosperous families. Tse mayzhe vdvіchi vishche, nizh іz tih sіmey, yakі lead an immoral way of life. In the rest, 36% of children were revealed, they suffered because of the cruel cause of the fathers.

According to the Institute of Sociology of the Russian Academy of Sciences, 40% of the violence in our country originates in it. Only for the first half of 2015 Russian Sims had 2 ths. driving in that 5 yew. facts of an important influence on health.3 With this, people, having known family conflicts, do not often turn to law enforcement agencies. On a fair thought, the analysts are low, the family space becomes unsafe for life with us, like a street.

The remaining fates of our country are guarded by the tendency to increase the number of registered malices, who are likely to have children of minor age. From 2013 to 2015 Today the number increased by 10 thousand, making up 96.5 thousand. osib.

Domestic violence is rіznomanіtnym by object. For this criterion, you can see three yoga vidi:

• violence of fathers against children;
• inter-friend violence;
• violence of children and onucivs like fathers, grandmothers, didusivs and other older relatives.

By stretching the riches of the fates, we will expand the first kind of family violence. At the turn of the XX-XXI centuries. in the Russian Federation, in family conflicts, fathers denounced violence against their children in 65% of young people, and children like fathers in 35% of young people.

What is the cost of inter-friend violence by the victims of this woman's wife. Until the beginning of the 21st century, about 15 ths. a woman, and in the middle, the protection of the skin fell on the people. one

Modern Russia has 36 thousand. a woman for a day to know a beat in sim'ї. Nearly half of the women who fought, gave in to attack at that hour, if they were pregnant, breastfeeding, small

the little child was either observed physically, morally suffering, or changed at the camp of bezporadnosti.

help with the police, to medical mortgages, or to a lawyer.

Poorly "new" phenomenon in Russia has become an increase in violence among these people. For some kind of tribute, there are 100 cases of domestic violence in about 40 cases of aggressor women.

In times of weakening of traditional family values, there is a widening of the third type of family violence. Behind the tribute of American veterans (Bartol et al.), on average, close to 1 million years old Americans (from 500 thousand to 2.5 million) will soon recognize a zhorstok occasion on the side of the quiet, who is watching them.

The materials of the study, which were carried out in the Russian Federation, show that during the years members of this family psychological violence occurs more often, lower physical, becoming 46 to 58 years of violence. However, beatings and other forms of physical violence can be feared in 15-38 hundreds of vipadkiv.

As it was meant to be, from the visionary sights of family violence, it is more important than directing against children. Fallow view subjective expression of such violent actsїх it is possible to classify different types. At the thought of more doslidnikov, the main ones are:

• - Psychological violence;
• - physical activity on children;
• - Sexual violence;
• - Nehtuvannya needs children.

Acts of the authors (M. Rotter et al.) Psychologically violence is viewed in a transcendental way, including in many aspects and manifestations that are related to children's interests. All the same, the prote is still more expanded and chotirilan's typology of childish violence in this world.

The data of the Russian services of emergency psychological assistance to children and young people (telephones of trust) indicate that the most widespread form of family violence is psychological. 1 This confirms the materials of various sociological studies. Dekilka rokiv that in the Murmansk State Pedagogical University jointly with the specialists of the regional crisis center for women "Pritulok" a sociological survey was carried out with the method of revealing the public opinion about the problems of domestic violence. Only 239 people were fed. According to the respondents, manifestations of violent motives were caused in the following forms: psychological violence (threats, images, fences, etc.) - 66%, physical violence (beating, nuisance from force and violence etc.) - 62%, sexual violence - 25%. Otzhe, the most important form of violence in her is psychological.

Psychologically, emotional violence is manifested in some of the humiliation, images, threats, slandering children. And here, behind him, rozmov folded in warm tones, lulled to threaten yoga physical destruction, appropriated derogatory nicknames.

Such survivors to the manifestation of psychological violence are also considered to be the isolation of the child.

laziness to the new supra-mundane was strong, which did not give rise to that ability. 1 Often, sometimes post-criticism of a child as a whole can be seen as an early form of emotional abuse.

Psychological violence is very negatively signified on the mental development of a child, and on the mood of a wild self-perception. You can see the special features and behavioral features of a child, as if you recognized emotional violence. Before them, fahіvtsі come to mind: infantilism, insensitivity, fearfulness of a child; low self-esteem; yoga anxiety, sleep disturbance, nervous tics; the demeanor of a child, schilnist to the point of usaminnnya or, navpaki, showing the aggressiveness of others of the same age, grown up and others.

Coming after the breadth of the form of family violence, there is a child and a physical child, to cause damage to the body or their risks. For physical violence the characteristic nonviolent nature of such a splash. It can be used in the form of a beating, katuvannya, coward, in looking at blows, lyapasiv, prikannya with hot objects, native land, lit cigarettes and so on. The girl drank in the Altufevsk primachy of Moscow, where the best children are taken and spent some time on the pivrok. On her face, one could see the lids of extinguished cigarettes. Vona sang out that the mother had brought a cochants, they drank good stench, and then, according to the devil, they extinguished cigarettes on their cheeks.

Before the manifestation of physical violence against children, there are such fluctuations, if a child without warm clothes is thrown into the cold, stays at a cold basement, flickers for a three-hour hour (at the bathroom, on the balcony, thinly), water, hedgehogs. To what kind of violence can be brought and grossly disrupted the mode of life of the child, including the indulgence of sleep.

Motivation of physical violence you can be different. As a clear reason for such an influx on the children of fakhivtsy, they call the next three:

• - special characteristics of a child(Reality of Nevilіkovo-Co. Khwork, Іnvalіdnіst, Rosumova Vіdstalіst, instructed by the psych_ya, the physical product, premature D_tyi, Nevіdpovіdnіtnіtіv, g_tekivnyam, іkukіv, g_teractnіst, іmpulsnіst, aggressive, scho ідхильсь від и номи заменка
• - special features of the fathers(Їh pіdvischeny rіven trivozhnostі, a temple іmpulsivnіst, rigіdnіst in povedіntsі, vzaєmovіdnosinah, nizky rіven control Vlasna Act reasonably that vchinkіv, viznannya neobhіdnostі vikoristannya in protsesі vihovannya sistemi fіzichnih retribution, nizky rіven samootsіnki that osvіti, dosvіd zhorstokogo representations to his ditinstvі that іn.) ;
• - foldable psychological atmosphere in sіm'ї(Vіdsutnіst vіdsіvіv s_m'ї vminnya adequately vyslovlyuvaty their feelings and emotions, dislike and mistrust on vіdnosheniyu one to one, instilling home-budіvskih principles in family life and іn.) 1

In the rich countries of the world, including the Russian Federation, physical activity on their children seems to be too early to do with a wide practice. Deyakim fathers are allowed to allow and truly punish the child with a way of lyapantsiv along the “soft path”, victorious potilichniks, ticks, hit with a belt.

Sociological studies of the establishment of different types of violence against children, which have grown to a standstill, carried out by domestic and foreign studies and practices, allowed us to establish that 60% of the respondents - the fathers' fathers' children, respected that they were physically punished by the necessary and effective control of the child. For data, experience. 120 batkiv, like mothers of children aged 3-7 years, conducted by V. V. Solodnikov and N. I. Simonenko at the turn of the 20th-21st centuries in the Ryazan region, less than 6% of the respondents - people and 15% of the respondents - women sued themselves for taking physical injuries when a child was injured. manage.

For the sake of zabіgannya to the physical infusion of one's children, part of the fathers of social practitioners, social educators, psychologists called on them not to allow such a practice. It is important to propagate other, alternative forms of physical violence to punish children

Fathers need to be aware that through a physical injection on a child, they can cause neurotic symptoms (sleep disorder, eye blinking, enuresis, etc.) In addition, physical violence often does not give a clear result. As, for example, the disordered behavior of a child is confounded by hyperactivity, then a physical injection on a new one may no longer solve the problem.

Most often, fathers, especially young ones, simply don’t know what to go through the rocks, and stink to reproach themselves, and in such rages, they cry for hitting the “soft place” of their children with a belt. Even as a result of such a vihovennia, in the future, incomprehensibility between them and those children who have grown up, the number of trusted children can become. Moreover, a child, as if she knew a physical punishment, in a grown-up life, most of all, the victor's wife knows how well her children are. And it is logical here that everything is invested in the installation: “They beat me like that, then, and I can do it.”

It should be noted that in some countries (Japan) and in other peoples of our country (Girts in the Caucasus) there is a cessation of physical violence against children. The stench was molded by the bagatioh stolіt and є st_ykoy tradition. For example, the grief-stricken people understood that, while belittling the child's worries, it is impossible for her to grow up with her husband, honestly, a person who is engraved in her. Today, psychologists unsurprisingly confirm that children, who are subjected to physical violence, can form a benevolent behavior, supra-worldly accomplishment, shillnist to nonsense, zhorstokostі, vіdchutya egoism and others. Batkam, skhilnyh to physical punishment of children, tse nobility.

One of the worst forms of child abuse is sexy. Vono means lulled by a grown-up human child into divinity sexual straightness. Sexually violent behavior, in a number of ways, includes such things as a demonstration of state bodies (exhibitionism), obscene images and respect, mattsuvannya parts of the body, statutory wear on the presence of a child, primus to prostitution, demonstrations. From the same, sexual violence against a child can be seen in the sight of statuary wearers, and in the form of dissolute children.

The scale of sexual abuse of children is significant. For tribute to the Center for Social and Ship Psychiatry named after. Serbian authorities of internal information of our country are scrupulously registered 7-8 ths. violations of sexual violence against children. In 2012 the Russian Federation has registered 8,800 such vipads. 1 Real life has a number of things. Adzhe is far from being such a fact that they become known to law enforcement agencies.

The largest underestimation of data about the number of children, known from the Russian Federation, who suffered from a sexual nature, is directed by Rosstat. Tse pov'yazano z vіdmіnnosti have pіdrahunkah. Data from the MVS include all the cases that were brought to the attention of the department, and Rosstat, apparently, fixes only quieter of them, against whom the official decision was blamed. In 2013, Rosstat's rozі narahuvav in the country is close to 1 yew. children, known to be victims of sexual nature. In 2014 їх it was already 2.4 thousand, and in 2015. the number of such children has increased to 3.7 thousand. “Navite deshcho underestimated the statistics of the statistical office to indicate the trend of a significant increase in the number of sexual victims among Russian children.

A study conducted on the problem of sexual abuse of children showed that one of four girls and one of eight boys was aware of sexual abuse in children up to 18 years old, and children with disabilities were subjected to sexual abuse in 2-10 times, in part, more often, The most frequent (modal) age of victims of sexual violence with children is 8-12 years.

In the absolute majority of cases of violence against children, people know that they are similar to them. Behind different dzherelami from 75 to 90 years of violence, there are people who live in their homes. At 35-45 years of age, a relative (father, brother, vitch, father-in-law, father and son), and in 30-45 years of age - a know-it-all (susid, friend of the family and in.)

There is a lot of statistics to show that sexual mischief is most often found in wrong families, as well as in families who created after another love. For the tribute, given in one of the publications of the journal "Russian Justice", nine hundred thousand such days were between the XX-XXI centuries. similarly among new families, 23% - among non-new families, and 68% - among families, de mothers chi father replaced witches chi machuha. 1 The most remaining category of the same may be the greatest risk of sexual abuse among children.

In a mature life, the signs of sexual violence can appear in the form of psychosomatic illnesses, various evils (drugs, alcohol, medicinal preparations), various injuries, caused by the hostility of one's body. vvazhayut, that for the singing part of the people, as they recognized in the childishness of sexual violence, weakness to aggression is characteristic, the stench of the hour in their families shows the violent nature of different species (psychological, physical and other).

The reaction of children, as if they recognized sexual violence, lie rich in what kind of age, equal to the development, the nature of the evil, the current setting to falsehood and other factors. It is necessary to know about the method of revealing sexual abuse by practitioners of social services, specialized centers show behavior, yakі can svіdchiti pro tse or viklikati pіdozri schodo tsgogo. Before them, you can see: the regressive camp of a child (turning to a colossal tearfulness, to hem with turning fears and іn); vtecha z house; knowledge about sex that does not fit the mind of a child; easy-going behavior with grown-up relatives; transcendental isolation and aggressiveness, hysteria; try suicidal thoughts; addicted to alcohol, drugs, etc.

To help victims of domestic violence, special services - crisis centers. In the rest of the years, a significant amount of work has been accumulated in St. Petersburg, the Orenburz Region, and the Khanty-Mansi Autonomous Okrug. Near the metro station Rostov-on-Don, there is a functioning crisis center "Afina", de fakhivtsy give support not only to the victims of violence, but also to women, yakі require additional help from that timchasovy shack.

Social work with children-victims of sexual violence may be specific. As psychologists vvazhayut, the most foldable that in the second stage її carrying out the feeding of a child. Wine includes five main stages:

• 1. Establishment of emotional contact and trustworthy contacts with a child. Dotsilno rozpochat z bezpechny yoma topics, for example, z rozpovidі psychologist himself and his role.
• 2. Evaluation of the development of the child, the equal of її psychological maturity, the developmental level of intelligence.
• 3. Withdrawal of necessary information. If you don’t want to call the child to the door, then next put specific food about the door. Rozmova starts from slanderous food, and then follows the purpose of directing food about violence (hour and frame, the nature of violence, about people, like yoga). Nutrition with dekіlkom given options of vіdpovіdey, direct and navіdnі can be put, as if all other possibilities of taking vіdomosti vіd іdіnі not give the effect.
• 4. Completion of the conversation. For example, it is necessary to sing the child's heart for spivpratsy, regardless of how fruitful the conversation was. In addition, it is necessary to calm the child, as if she is ill-treated, to notice the exaltation of її protection.
• 5. Analysis of taken records. It is important to protect the information, taken from different sources. For whom it is necessary to take into account information about the child's family, including information about the relatives of the father among themselves, relatives with the child, about the order of the day, the interests of the burying of the child, about the stosunki with one-year-olds ... that іn. Cі vіdomosti can help to add rozpoіd dіtіnі and bachiti, scho trapilis in a wider contextі.

Carefully set to the needs of children Being a kind of domestic violence, it represents a serious threat to the life of a child, and to normal socialization. Such a setting to a child is manifested in non-Vikonan by fathers or persons, who can be replaced, obedience to watch over her, to protect her at a glance, to provide for a child even, clothes, life, necessary medical needs, access to the cob and the head.

To the point of nehtuvannya by the needs of a child, it is possible to carry out the practice of transferring it to third persons. Buvayut vpadki, if the "fathers" with the method of taking a penny of wine give their child for prostitution, for aiding in shakhraystvo, stealing, or they are trying to sell them. It was for this reason that in the press it was mentioned about the attempt of a woman from Rostov-on-Don (convicted more than once) to sell a six-fold donka. The woman estimated her child at 4 million rubles. The day after the transfer by the operatives of pennies її was seized, and the child was handed over to the protection of the opika. one

Nestacha turboti about a child from the side of the father may be hated. Vіn іnоdі motivations їхной ailments, transcendent vigilance, lack of knowledge. The presence of strong respect from the side of the fathers to the safety of the child with all the necessary may be the result of social upheavals, for example, hromada wars, spontaneous disasters (really, earthshaker and so on.) Obviously, this is another situation. Vimushenya obezhennya chil- dren should be provided for її їzhej, clothes, living in the most part to wear timchasovy character.

Social practitioners, calling professionally to help children who need them, are guilty of acting like this at the same time. Among the peculiarities of the mental state of the child's behavior, which allow one to suspect an unimportant attitude towards her, the fahivtsy see: constant hunger for help; stealing a hedgehog; pragnennya, be it in any way, right up to the infliction of self-taught, screw up the respect of the grown-ups; great caress and respect; oppression of moods, a state of apathy; pasivnіst abo, navpaki, aggressiveness and impulsiveness; delinquent (anti-suspended) behavior right up to vandalism; nevminnya splkuvatisya with people, be friends; indiscriminate friendliness; regressive behavior; difficulties for the navchanni, weak success, lack of knowledge; low self-esteem.

In the solution of problems of family violence, it is important to have preventive work. The most striking group here are children and lads. We can see the problems of the current authors by solving the problem three equal actions against domestic violence. First rіven straightened out the prevention of violent processes by way of shaping a non-aggressive behavioral model in natural families. This can be achieved by such methods as psychological trainings, role-playing games, creation for the improvement of self-esteem, psychological stability of a child, training. Other rіven prevention of directives to work in disadvantaged families and families of social risk. You should come in whenever you see children, as if you know a bitter occasion from the side of those close to you. Third rіven prevention can be less intelligently called zapobіzhnym. Vіn in essence wear corrective-rehabilitation directives, being targeted not only at the infliction of violent actions, but also at the rehabilitation visits of any child, as if she knew violence. In such a time, social work can include correctional, psychotherapeutic methods and medical and social welfare.

Dialnіst іz zabіgannya podannja naslіdkіv sіmeyny violіnіє shоdo іdії reach nebіdnіє efekt іn zazpechennі koordinirovanі robo fahіvtsіv (sotsіal'nyh educators, pedagogіv-psihologistіv іn.) z vyhovatami tityachіh kіvіv, teachers shkіl. At the turn of the XX-XXI centuries. in the Russian Federation, only about 7% of the cases of zhorstok occasion with children became known to law enforcement agencies. In the case of all of them, those who care for children in kindergartens were 8-10 times more likely to be aware of such facts, while the practitioners of the inspectors were on the right side of the wrong ones (in the prevention of law violations). one

Otzhe, saving a significant part of the children, who have a socially unsafe situation, one of the most important social problems. In Russia, over 2/3 of non-permanent evils sprout from dysfunctional families, de "norm" - welding, scandals, reciprocal image, drinking, spitting. Understanding the specifics of the problems of conflict, pedagogically unpromising, asocial and immoral families, as well as the analysis of possible negative effects on the share of children who live with these families, create the necessary theoretical basis for the development of a child’s disadvantaged child welfare.

Social work with asocial sim'єyu

On thought I. V. Grebennikov, an accomplice of pedagogical approachthe main functions of the sіm'ї , є:

reproductive (The creation of life, that is the birth of children, the continuation of the human race);

economical (community raising money for life, inspiring the raising of the strength of their grown-up members, lordship, revealing their budget, organizing slower activities);

vikhovna (formation of the specialty of a child, a systematic injection of a family member of a skin member into a protracted life, a constant injection of children into a father and other grown-up members of a family);

communicative (SIM 'SIM ADDRESS IN THE CONTACT CITIA OF EVERYMENTS OF THE MATERIA OF THE MASTERSHTVE MISTRAY, LITROUME TO MISTRETTVE, INTUTING SIMA IN RIZNOMANІNIKI NATUREY NATURE SERVICE ON THE INFORMATION OF SPRY SPRIENCE, ORGANIZIA INTERSHNYMEY SPIKOVENNY, DOZVILLA TA VIDPOCHINKE).

Representative of the sociological approach O.M. Chernyak saw the advancefunction sіm'ї :

spiritual intercourse - development of special features of the members of the family, spiritual mutual enrichment;

psychotherapeutic ;

state-economical ;

regenerative ;

scope of primary social control ;

recreational ;

social status ;

reproductive ;

holy vikhovna .

The functions reflect the historical nature of the connection between the family and the family, the dynamics of family changes at different historical stages. Today's family has spent a lot of functions that cemented them in the past: I care, protect, illuminate and others. Proteo part of the functions are stable to change, in sensi їx can be called traditional. Before them, you can add functions that are found in all three approaches:

reproductive;

vikhovna;

gospodarsko-ekonomichna;

communicative.

Damaged functions of the system - these are the peculiarities of life, which make it easier to change the vikonnanny sim'єyu її functions. To take the damaged ones can be even wider than the number of factors: the peculiarities of the peculiarities of the members and the mutual relations between them, the singing of the life of this. For example, the reason for the disruption of the spiritual function of the family can be the presence of the fathers in the old-fashioned knowledge and knowledge, and the disruption of the widnosins (conflicts with the nutrition of the family, the introduction of other members of the family). Fallen off vikonannya or non-violent functions of the family can be mentally divided into two great blocks: normal (prosperous) and unfavorable family.

Normal family - I understand better. Let's respect this family, as a way to secure the necessary minimum of goodwill, social protection and pushing by the members of that mind for the socialization of children until they reach their psychological and physical maturity.

Prosperous Sims also feeldifficult . These problems, as a rule, are caused by internal conflicts and conflicts, which are connected with the minds of life in society, which change:

protect one from the other, to help the other members of the family (“indulgent, helping hyperprotection and “overworld opika”);

because of the inadequacy of the state of affairs of the authorities about this and the quiet social vimogs that are presented to her at this stage of social development (problems of succumbing to modern society).

Nevikonannya with this part of their functions is a sign of trouble. In psychological, sociological, pedagogical literature, it is necessary to make a lot of sense, to understand, to namedisadvantaged family: problematic, asocial, family risk group, social risk family, socially unprotected family.

In robots, we can see such types of dysfunctional families, presented by S.G. Shuman and O.M. Elizarovim: conflict, crisis, problematic, asocial.

Conflict Sims. In mutual friendship, those children have spheres, for those who have interests, consume, let that bazhannya members of this family come from the silence, giving rise to strong negative emotional experiences. Shlyub can be saved for a long time for mutual deeds and compromises, as well as for other factors that creak it.

Crisis Sims. Contrary to the interests and needs of the members of this family, it can be especially sharp in nature and zahoplyu important spheres of life of the family union. The members of this group are uncompromising, and take the fortune-telling positions one to one, not pogodzhuyuchis on the current actions, but compromise decisions. Crisis blues fall apart or change on the border of the fall.

Problematic Sims. It is characteristic of the appearance of especially important situations, building to bring the ship to collapse. For example, the life of life, the hardship and the ailment of one of the friends, the burden of catastrophes on the morning of the family, the conviction for criminal mischief on the trival term and the low number of other, superhuman life conditions. In modern Russia, the category of families is the widest, for the singing part of which there are possible prospects for aggravating family relationships, or for causing important mental disorders among members of the family.

Asocial family - the type of sim'ї, є the system of values ​​is destroyed, the child is out of balance and unacceptable. Such a family is not safe for the welfare of its own way of life, norms, rules, formed by the behavior of grown-up children. There can be more or less, financially secured or more vigilant, which is lower, and so on.

For the appointment of the doctor of pedagogical sciences T.V. Lodkino,asocial family - this is the reason, especially the negative anti-community directive, which manifests itself in the transfer of such gifts to children to the supremacy of values, vimog, traditions, like aliens, and sometimes fortune-telling to a normal way of life.

3 dot zorusociological approach to asocial sim'ї - the same category of families, as they do not perform enough of their functions, and so they themselves appear weak to the influx of negative social factors. The behavior of the members of the asocial sіm'ї can become a major inconvenience for those who are sick and well-being as a whole, the shards superchit by the glaringly accepted norms and rules.

Representativesocionomic approach Yu.V. Korchagina is given the same appointmentasocial sim'ї – “ce sim'ї z asocial and antisocial behavior of її members - alcoholics, drug addicts, law-breakers,deviant sim's with destructive faults, in some generations, models of broken behavior often decline. Tsemaladaptive sіm'ї that cannot cope with the functions placed on them; in such sіm'yah the most important forms of trouble appear.

Within the framework of the socionomic approach to the identification of asocial sim's, we are able to detect the presence of all aspects of social development: psychological, pedagogical and sociological, which in turn indicate the interdisciplinary nature of social work. Viznachayuchi asotsialnu s_m'yu as an object of research rich sciences, next to designate that in the sphere of social work she sits one of the first jobs.

Clarify different groupsfactors that contribute to the development of asociality in the family . For example, V.M. Entirely see three groups of causes of trouble for the family: in the first place, crisis phenomena in the social and economic sphere, which indiscriminately inject into the family and reduce their potential; in a different way, the reasons for the psychological and pedagogical power, caused by internal incompatibilities; thirdly, the reasons for the biological nature (physically or mentally ill fathers, filthy recession in children, the presence of these children because of the development of children with disabilities).

V.Є. Letunova see so think like thatfactori molding of asocial sіm'ї :

medical and biological factors:

recession reasons;

born of authority;

damage to mental and physical development;

wash the people of the child;

ill mother and її way of life;

socially - economically:

incomplete fathers;

butt of the father's sim'ї, as if it were an immoral way of life;

obscenity to life at the suspense.

For the professional activity of a specialist in social work, the order of the previous classifications of factors is rhiziku, cicaviaclassification of causes of asociality of families filed by S.A. White:

medical and social causes : (contracted depression, chronic illness, disability, unsanitary conditions);

social and economic reasons (Low material rіven sim'ї, filthy living mind);

socio-demographic reasons (Nepovnі; rich; repeated slub);

social and psychological reasons (the creation of the nature of mutuality, the presence of common interests, the moral ineptitude of the fathers, the zhorstocity);

criminal factors (alcoholism, drug addiction, immoral way of life of fathers, family beshketniks, presence of convicted family members).

I. Alexeyeva seesgeographic factors , oskilki at the fatty registers Khїльсь більшик кілкисть сімений сімей concentrate in the number of industrial zones, it is characteristic that there is an exemplast gurthimitkіv, de accommodation people, Yakі do not Majut Holy Zhitla іrth-ПіСля продатля підприствиствични головіть стримина колільки-забобова заминой комполоний колиминкиноковаїї Roboti. Significantly, the place in the lives of such families is borrowed by evil spirits, like, lowering the appearance of dissatisfaction with their lives, sounding the possibility of surviving obvious problems.

Yak object follow-upasocial family make your ownsigns and characteristics . I.A. Kibalchenko saw the main signs of asocial sіm'ї: members of sіm'ї do not attach respect to one alone, especially fathers to children; all life with this is characterized by inconsistency and intransigence, and among the members - despotism; members of this turbovanie of the forbidden reality, they have to resolutely take one more family secrets; in the rules of this, it’s important to occupy the fence and freely hang on to your own needs.

O.V. Gurova and I.B. Timofeeva is appointedsigns of asocial sіm'ї , Among some of the main ones, to my mind, є:

the drinking of one or both of the fathers;

asocial behavior of the fathers;

Budov kubla for criminal and asocial elements;

zhorstoke occasion with children.

How do seniors (B. S. Bratus, V. D. Moskalenko, E. M. Mastyukova, F. G. Uglov), grown up in such a family, forget about their father’s shoes, completely and completely get into alcohol / or a criminal subculture, which is accompanied by an investment in moral values ​​and leading to social and spiritual degradation. Zreshtoy sіm'ї z chemical staleness become socially and psychologically disadvantaged.

M.Є. Egorova additional characteristicsasocial with such signs :

due to protracted, conflicting internal withdrawals due to criminological and drug addiction;

increasing social isolation with the exclusion of families from trusted people with smaller families in the microdistrict;

children, who live with such a family, feel differentform a vise :

a) roz'dnanіst that emotsiyne vіdkidnya from the side of the fathers;

b) zanedbaniste and violence, feel guilty and sorry for the behavior of other members of the family, for example, mothers who drink alcohol;

c) they stink their behavior and their own opinions from the “subordinate standard of rules”;

d) stink to try to transfer the style of internal “distinct behavior” to mutually irritating ones, to impose it, otherwise they will sound wild.

Associative sіm'ї characterizeddysfunctions practical for all the galuzahs of life. Socio-psychological studies show that in asocial families the power is clearly attached to the members of the family one by one; ambivalence of their mutual acceptance; a priori listing of problems; specific features of the members of the family. The situation in the asocial family is already unhealthy and unstable, at one time the fakhivtsy speak about those that the main feature of the asocial family is violence, as if it zabarvluє that shows all the characteristics of these families.

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It is possible that there will be some kind of future to lie down in the form of a growing generation. The children themselves will be remembered by those who value and sue in the new, like traditions will be saved, and like will be forgotten. For this very reason, the problems of the family's child care are not only raised by the fathers, but by the entire society as a whole.

Such fathers have wide possibilities for universal and literate development of a child with whatever interests and needs. They can signify yoga in a studio like a group, hire a specialist who is ready to deliver children's language, solve problems and develop, drive away fear, become more friendly and comradely ... The list of services that children hope for can be continued indefinitely. Ale, with whom, undoubtedly important, the key role in the process of vihovannya was played by the father of the vikhovannia.

Family values ​​- the basis of the development of a full-fledged individual

The concessions of support and turbot from the side of the closest people, a child, being honed by the impersonal high-class fahivtsiv, cannot be accepted and in a right way deeply master the rules of vihovannya.

Principles of family care

What are the peculiarities of a family weaving, the appearance of such є obov'yazkovym for whether it be a family, zatsіkavlenoї have vyhovanni good people?

The first and, perhaps, the head of the mind of a successful family vihovannya - that crazy love to a child is absolute.

The Batkivsky booth was judged to be in the life of a child on this territory, it won’t only feel stolen and in safety, but it’s rozrakhovuvatim on the rose of that turbota that would not have happened. Moreover, it’s important, that the child understood that it’s necessary to love independently in the light of success and special achievements. І accept as such, like wine is true.

Regardless of those who, at the first glance, the mind’s wiggle can be naive and obvious, they carried a respectful serpent in themselves. A child, like a mind, to lie down in the world of the Batkiv’s kohanny, in order to get good at it, delighting those close to you with those other achievements, growth unsung in yourself, anxious.

The task of the family vihovannya

In that mood, it’s not possible to screw up respect with good vchinki, the child chooses a fundamentally different strategy. I begin to balk, hooliganism, demonstrating negativism without cause at first glance. The fathers most often do not understand the reasons for such a child’s behavior, blaming everything on the marriage of vihovannosti and most often “navantazhuyut” even more strongly, in spite of themselves in front of themselves and provocatively inadequate behavioral reactions. Get out of the closed loop.

Rozuminnya that priynyattya pochuttіv that emotsіy, yakі vіdchuvaє chіdіnі, readiness іnіstruvat іt nayzhivіshu іt іndomestnuyu fate іn zhitti іtіnі - axis, scho mає become а basis іmеynogo vіhovannya.

Superb widening pardon, insane love, not good enough to sip a child and spoil it. Allowing a child to feel stolen and imprisoned in themselves, they will open their impersonal paths for self-development.

Indulgence in whims - vihovannia of the future hisist that tyrant

Zvichayno well, insanely kohannya can not stray from the smallest whims of a child. The edge that is allowed to be hounded in sіm'ї, can be clear at once for the full molding of the child's witness about the hedgerowed and allowed, and to finish it with a gnuchka, so that you can stick to the child's small consumption. And more of the fathers, trusting their intuition and knowing their child, as a rule, they themselves will understand, which they themselves need at that stage. And the most loving father, how to know nothing else, how importantly to prepare a child for reasonable self-discipline, self-development, work on himself.

Assimilated by a child, a statement about dovkіllya, the formation of a picture of the world is one more, less important task of the family's vihovannia.

Vіn nаv'yazlivіy formі dіznаєєє pro rule, yakі y suspіlstvі, de vin alive. And from time to time you start to think, how to behave better in this situation, but how to fix it is not a trace. Simeyne vihovannya to teach a child to the simplest beginners in mutual relations with people, like they will feel sick. We endure our own sings and vikoristovuvatime otrimani, playing with one-year-olds, and then - joining with the sucides, the readers too thin.

Sim'ya is a place for meeting representatives of different generations

Razmirkovuchi about the role of this in the development of newcomers, it is impossible not to see that, moreover, it allows children to interact with representatives of different age categories.

With a year of wine, you begin to understand that with representatives of the older generation it is necessary to speak differently, like with peers. I have to establish the rules of etiquette, which regulate mutual relations with boys and girls, men and women too. Sim'ya becomes a "changed copy" of the suspense, in a way of life.

Sim'ї groupi riskiku and їх idiosyncrasies

Looking at the current problems of family vihovannia, it is impossible to ignore the problem of disadvantaged families and family risk without respect. Insanely, the skin sim'ya is hung up in the fact that the child, like swaying in it, was honed with a turbo, respect and didn't demand anything. However, a number of economical, demographic, medical and sanitary and other factors can lead to the fact that this is in a twisted camp and does not appear in the context of the safety of the child in full development and development. Such a “group risk” will require additional assistance. And most of all, through the destruction of problems, it’s not in the wake of the father’s obov’yazki’s obligatory rank.

Styles of family weaving and signs

How do I threaten the growth of unfriendly factors?

We are ahead of a significantly laky tendencies: unfortunate threatens the growth of the number of careless and homeless children, families, as they cannot afford a fasting place of living, as well as impossible families too.

Fear of statistics, which shows the constant increase in the number of vipadkivs, and the reduction of the rights of the fathers, the setting of the family to witness about those that the problem of the family's unfortunate situation is the negative manifestation.

Let's take a look at the main types of disadvantaged families

Irrelevant Sims

Incomprehensible are those sim'ї, the de child lives at the same time from one of the fathers. The problems of such families are most often:

Social and economic problems. Before them, one can see the supply of supplies, low material security. Most of all, it is better for such children, shards of the stench can make a rich environment with a little income. In addition, the woman was embarrassed to go to work to look after her children, as she was deprived of her only guardian, most of the time she can’t rule on the full working rate, so that I’ll take away the full salary. And I will help the child, alimony, and also other social payments most of the time cannot cover a part of the cost for children.

Causes of blaming wrong families in Russia

Behavior problems. The presence of one of the fathers most often in the negative story changes the style of the family vihovannya. For example, trying to protect the child as much as possible in the face of stress connected with the experience of separation, as well as change, who have come across the way of life of the family, richly begin to oppose the children beyond the world, allowing for their independence. And the deacons fall into another extreme, allowing the children of the Batkiv’s pikluvannya that respect, captivating themselves with a robot. With one more butt of ailments in the “child-father” system, it is possible for mothers to show strictness, bazhayuchi cim “compensate” for your father’s day. In all these moods, the atmosphere in sim'ї, the child is deviated, becomes very unhealthy.

Most of the time, after a separated mother, she can’t get into the negative emotions associated with a lot of people. And begin to vent your anger at your child.

A natural subset of negative styles of family conflict, which have been formed, growing children's and father's relationships, tendencies to mutual distrust, disruption of communicative links and impersonal problems, with such a child to stumble into the future.

Psychological problems. Before them, one can see our experience in front of us, tied up with the daily moral support from the side of one of the fathers. In the family, the child experienced the separation of the fathers, she forms impersonal complexes - the same experience of separation from one of the fathers, and the memory of herself in what happened. In addition, the presence of one of the fathers can very negatively affect the child's self-esteem.

Main problems of different families

The problem of familial development in the wrong families is the child's assimilation of models of state-role behavior. As you know, gender models, then models of behavior, are typical for representatives of this state, the child conquers, first for everything, marveling at the father. Whilst at the sim's, the child begins step by step to recognize the order of obvious calls, then we behave differently between men and women, and inspire spontaneity with one of these models. Not the same thing is between the child and his ability. And just like, for example, a boy growing up without a father, it will be easier for the future you to demonstrate the forms of human behavior in different situations.

Bagato batkiv pragnate virishiti tsyu problem, laying repeated hats. Prote, nagodzhennya stosunkіv іz new member іm'ї also require chimalih zusil from the side of close children.

Ways to solve the problems of other families

The incomplete family has been expanded with a new category of non-family families. If a child is swayed by her mother, or, nearer, tatom, then at the extensions, like a guardian, grandmothers and grandfathers appear. In such a family, the Crimea is socially and economically, the blame is low on specific difficulties. Grandmothers and children, through a great deal of money with their children, often find difficulties in inspiring constructive partnerships with them, it is important for them to earn their authority. Children of such guardians most often demonstrate forms of delinquent and deviant behavior.

See the deviant behavior of children from different families

Rich Sims. Irrespective of those who, at the beginning of the twentieth century, the presence of eight and more children was considered a practical norm, today the situation has fundamentally changed. I don’t care about those who develop into a rich family, which makes it easier for children to socialize, develop into new skills, interplay and mutual relations with one-liners, and also develop into a new kind of deep sadness, stink all the same.

Head problems of wealthy families

Rich sims can be planned and unplanned. So, fallow in the form of certain features, they are subdivided into the following categories:

1. Sim'ї, richness of some of them is due to cultural and intellectual factors (for example, in the case of religion, if fathers categorically oppose abortions, or traditions, as well as special pereconannya members of this family, it is difficult for mothers to want to be able to.) , pov'yazanih z vihovannyam that zabezpechennyam children, tim schonaimshe, children of some kind of bazhan, planned and in fatherhood є pragnennya narodzhuvati їх i vikhovuvati nadali.
2. Bagatoditni sіm'ї, zumovleni svremennyam repeated slubіv. Most often, a man and a woman, like laying down for the sake of living at the same time, while washing their children, people at the front of the boats. In the majority of opinions, such a decision is taken in accordance with the understanding of what is possible to make friends with. And most of all, the stench is generally safe in the quiet moods, if the fathers did not get far away to enjoy themselves among their relatives.
3. Rich sympathy, mindfulness of the low socio-cultural level of the fathers. Tse - the most convenient category of wealthy families, the father's shards through the decline of cultural development, shkidlivy zvichki, asotsialny way of life do not acquaint that world with goodness, as it is put on them at the link with the fatherhood. The first child, narodzhena in such a family, most of the time does not have the necessary minds for full-fledged development. This will require serious rehabilitation visits.

Factor risk for children from wealthy families

The problems of children, which sway in rich families, sound similar:

• Due to the lack of batkivsky respect in children, inadequately low self-esteem is most often formed.
• Through those who, in rich families, part of the turbot about the young lie on the elders, the social age of the first advances, the rest become noticeably lower.
• If the interval between the people of children is less, then there will be stronger competition for the father's resources.
• Trends in the negative impact of social institutions (zocrema sim'ї).

Sim'ya, like a vikhovuy child with obmezhennymi opportunities of health. The socialization of osіb z obmezhennym possibilites zdorov'ya sogodni іstotno diffi cult. A disabled person will require a constant watch, his income is significantly reduced, and the adaptive capacity is reduced. Everything is signified as a material state of the sim'ї, de є a person with the opportunity to become healthy, and її to the psychological climate.

Sim'ї z children with disabilities enter to the risk group

Sim'ya, like a whirlwind child with the opportunities for health, is most embarrassed to deal with such problems:

1. Social and economic problems. To watch over a handicapped child, one of the fathers is often embarrassed to deprive the place of work, or hire a person, as if taking on a part of their goiter. And those who are otherwise negatively signified on the family budget. In addition, for full-scale growth, the development of such a child most often requires expensive preparations and special equipment. Pіlgi and social assistance in more vipadkіv zdatnі virishiti tsyu problem less frequently.
2. Psychological problems. Regardless of those that the internal climate of such families can be quite friendly and prosperous, the risk of separation is significantly greater in them. In the wake of this child, a significant part of the support and assistance is spared.
3. For the presence of children with complex chi folding damage, professional help from the side of fahivtsiv often leads to the fact that the child begins to seriously develop in the intellectual development. in the interplay of children with an exceptionally uplifting social development, provoking psychological immaturity.

Sim'ї, yakikh є zhorstoke cause. Zhorstoke animality in sim'ї can hang around like the children themselves, and members of their sim'ї. Chodo child can be restored:

1. Economic violence. Deliverance of the child of material goods, svidoma vіdmova in the provision of the child with the right equal, the provision of clothing, even if it is thin.
2. Sexual violence. Violent primus children to sexual intercourse, as well as the dissolution of the sexual nature of another.
3. Physical violence. Beatings inflicted by children of the corporal ears, which will improve your health.
4. Psychological violence. The relief of the child of the stale medium for the full development of that vihovannia. Allowing a child to have an equal contact with grown-ups.

Violence in sim'ї is transmitted “at recessions”

Such a bi character is not a little more than just a reason to be with a child, it is systematically victorious and fundamentally lamaє the specialness of a child, rolyache її unsung in her own way, fearful, and in other temperaments - supermundanely aggressive and conflict.

Zhorstok vozdzhennya in sim'ї can also be extended to other її members (for example, zhorstokіst batka like a mother, zhorstokіst batka like a grandmother and didusіv).

Irrespective of those that such a form of zhorstokostі does not stick around the child without intermediary, you can not help but be recognized for your moral and psychological well-being.

In addition, child, in the presence of such family conflicts, risks in the future will turn on up to one of the models of behavior:

1. Become the object of violence yourself. In sim'yah, de practice zhorstoke occasion, zhorstokіst zgoda priymatisya like the norm. And if you create your own family in the future, the child will not be able to bring into life the behavior patterns that yoga father's family practices.
2. Become a subject of violence, copying the other aggressive side, like creating violence.

A child's trauma leaves a mark on all life

In the case of dermal disorders, the correction of zhortogo causes is impossible without the elimination of both the most obvious and obvious, and the most common forms of risik.

Irrespective of those who have brought the butt of the family to the most obvious and pronounced disadvantages, the problems of vihovannia do not pass over and over, small children.

Rich furnishing - for example, timchasovy day of the working day of one and both fathers, troubles of wages, sickness of one of the members of the same family - everything can be brought up to the point that even yesterday it is prosperous with this day that we require additional help. Away, the share of this money is rich in what is stale, in fact, in time, it will be addressed to them for help. In this rank, you can either get into difficulties or go into the category of disadvantaged.

In addition, specialists see the category of families from the disadvantaged:

• With a high equal income.
• Sim'ї, one chilka members of єkoї є vіdomimi, media persons.
• Sim'ї z supermundanely firm, or on the contrary, spread out by family cordons.
• Sim'ї іz spіvzalezhnymi members.
• Distrustful Sims.
• Sim'ї, focused on the success of the child.

Dysfunctional Sims may be under permanent control

Family rice with prihovanim unfortunate people, those who want these hardships not fall into the vіchі and not so obvious, the stench may not be less negative influx on the development of the child, like in nіy vyhovuєtsya.

It means that it makes it easier to recognize the fact that the fact is unfavorable as a legacy - the work with it.

Ways to correct the social problems of family development

Problems, from which social services are aggravated to the height of family problems, are insanely large. And it is practically impossible to use the maximum style of the term. But, regardless of the price, it is possible and necessary to get used to visiting for the cherry-picking of this type.

Among possible ways of correction:

1. Development of the sphere of prevention and early diagnosis of severe illness in children and other forms of family trouble
2. Expansion of the measures of telephones to dovir, promotion of the psychological culture of the population.
3. Expansion of the network of social and rehabilitation centers, as well as centers for help and support for disadvantaged families and families of risk groups
4. Organization of courses for adoptive and patronage families, where candidates for adoption of guardianship could get the necessary skills for cooperation with a foster child
5. The system of calls for the prevention of social orphanhood, homelessness and carelessness

The work with this group of risks, insanely, will require a comprehensive approach, that all furnishing is secure, with which you are rebuked. Ale, the situation would not be foldable, in which a child would appear, the strategy of mutual cooperation was correctly induced, that faith in the best possible way to allow her to turn the joy of life. The ability to marvel at the future with a smile, where there is no place for violence and zhorstokost.