Freud called the oral stage in the development of a child the first stage in the process of psychosexual development. At this stage, the main contentment for a child is nothing. The word "oral" itself resembles a Latin language and literally translates as "what comes up to the mouth."
Main features of the stage
The oral stage of development continues in the middle type of people until the second year. In fact, її completion falls at that moment, if the child is seen from the breasts. At this stage of mating, the child and the mother are taken care of by the help of the breasts. Restlessness takes away satisfaction from the sight of pissing and biting breasts. For whom, one of the most important relationships between a mother and a child at this stage is one of the most important. The main rice of the oral stage is the exercise of not pulling various objects up to the mouth. If the child is nalyakana, or perhaps embarrassed, the mother applies it to her breasts. Tse allow youmu to calm down. The peculiarities of the behavior at the oral stage will indicate that the child will be imprinted in himself or fallow in the future. Freud wondered what kind of children can be divided into pessimists and optimists.
Peculiarities of Erikson's look at the oral stage: on the view of Freud's theory
The stages of development were also described by Erikson. Freud's legacy was taken as the basis for them. The oral-sensory stage after Eriksson is also three-fold in people up to 18 months. At this hour, the child sings for himself one of the most important meals, as if we mean the whole far away share: how can I trust the heavenly world? As soon as the children are consumed, they are satisfied, they know that the light can be trusted. If the situation is somewhat unimaginable, it develops into a super-elegant rank, causing you to suffer, then the very child and start a check in life. As they grow older, they change their minds about what other people do not deserve to trust.
Irrespective of consciousness, between the concepts of Freud and Erikson there is independence. If the founder of psychoanalysis is to put instinctive pulls on the field, then Erikson's theory focuses on social development. Freud describes the development of a child on the triad "mother - father - child", and Erikson emphasizes the importance of interaction with society.
Oral character molding
Fixation - the cost of building a building to protrude from one stage of development to the next. Її the main legacy is the transcendental variety of needs, the power of that stage, which has little space for fixation. For example, a twelve-year-old child, like a wet finger, the Freudians would look like she was stuck at the oral stage of psychosexual development. Yogo energy of libido manifests itself in that one who looks active, which is more powerful than the early stage. The more the people go out to celebrate the tasks of the singing centuries, the greater the world of wines, the weaker to the emotional stress in the future.
Fixation of behavior at the oral stage is due to low reasons: early separation of the mother, shifting turboti about the baby to other relatives or nannies, pre-stroke removal of the breasts. This is how the type of character is formed, which Freud called oral. A grown-up person with a similar warehouse of special features is characterized by passiveness, stagnation in others (oral-passive type), negativism, sarcasm (oral-sadistic type).
Not less important to understand is the term “regression”, or turning people to an early stage of psychosexual development. Regression is accompanied by childish habits, characteristic of the early period. For example, a person has already grown up in a stressful situation regressing, which is manifested by tears, biting nails, obsessive bazhannyam to drink "what is so bad." Regression is a special type of fixation.
Aggression is undetectable
Under the hour of the oral stage of the child, the presence of the mother is necessary, and love and turbota. However, even though it is not possible for a new one to know a satisfactory contact with the father, the little one will be gracious and spend it until the moment when one needs (for that number of emotions) they will not be satisfied. Pіdrostayuchi, the child begins to behave in such a rank, nіbi mother їy zovsіm not needed. The aggression is not directed at the mother, but at the new one himself. In other words, in the process of developing a child, in the middle, an image of a father is created, because she didn’t love him, and she, her blackness, is also impossible to love.
A postal service for which one is the owner of the little one. You do not see the presence of the mother, physical contact, psycho-emotional support, but sometimes. Possibly, the mother of such a baby was psychologically immature, not ready until the appearance of the child, and that did not know how to establish contact with her. So, she could have a hard time with the help of her mother. The situation is the most wide-spread, in which you are stuck at the oral stage, - if the baby is given at the manger, or else they are deprived of the guardianship of other relatives. Mother, for the time being, work, learn to take care of your rights.
What to bring fixation to: the legacy of the grown-ups
Oskelki little ones forever having lost their posture of respect, a new model of behavior develops, so that they constantly cheer for others, cherish for a person, or else an object. In other words, wine develops in oneself the fallacy of people, speeches, and phenomena.
As a rule, the object of favoritism is the main objects of hate and hatred - mothers, fathers, and other close household members. You can blame yourself more strongly for domestic creatures, which is also to say about the serious absence of a loving mother at the oral stage. Problems in a grown-up stanі zazvichay po'yazanі zі stosunki іz sexual partners, vlasnimi dіtmi. Oskіlki people are psychologically stuck in early childhood, they look like they are grown up in the presence of other people. Tse create staleness in them.
Also, the oral character is affected by greed, insatiability by the object of its fallow. Prote, from the other side, people, as if joking to themselves in the future, seem to be unable to accept it. Aje is deep in the soul of guilt, which they will not give to you. A child's psychological trauma tragically forms his life path, light perception.
The oral character is manifested in the obtrusive zvichtsi biting the lips, grizzly nails or the olive owl, constantly chewing the zhuyka. Crimium of this fixation at this stage may be a number of other manifestations, starting from balakness and verbal aggression to gluttony, addiction to chicken. Such a character can be called depressive, weak to the point of transcendent pessimism. Such a powerful person, as a guest of the state, is important, meaningful.
Seeing other people
In mutual relations with other people, the people were pragmatic, so that they spoke out loud, wiggled, helped to realize the power potential. In other words, there is a strong tendency in some people to be stale in other people - this is one of the main features of being stuck in the oral stage. The phase of the bula was passed without a hitch, which made it impossible to lose the bet on an unfamiliar level. For such grown-ups, it is necessary to try the interaction with a psychologist in order to get this kind of fixation.
Є th іnshiy showing his mind to the character - usunennya. Such a person, with all her strength, thinks about something else, or else she herself begins to feel more reluctant, uncomfortably intervening in their specialty space, gradually nav'yazuyuchis. This is how I create conflicts between stosunkah and people.
A person has grown up with such a fixation, gradually aware of failures, shards internally, unfamiliarly respecting himself as an unloved child. Vіn without a break, sting for stubbornness, inactivity, schilnіst to incessant depressions. Vіn also may be overbіlshene vіshtya vlasnoї nezalezhnostі. Knowing it for the first time stress - here a person with an oral character is most acutely aware of the need for support of other people.
Such a person constantly turns himself into mystique and is easy to know for any given situation. We try to bring ourselves to redeem ourselves for others, in this way we compensate for our inadequacy and dislike.
In a different way, you can feel the phrases in kshtalt “I need everything”, “so that people don’t understand me in this food, it means that they don’t understand anything in principle”, “I won’t explain anything to you, even if you still don’t understand anything ". In other words, the new get-together has a fluency in agility, tolerance.
Psychological attitudes fixed on the oral phase of an adult
Let's take a look at the main pereconannya people, yakіy domineering oral character.
- "I can't get away from what I can reach."
- "There is nothing here that would have gone to me."
- You're guilty of me, I'll give you death.
- "I don't need anything from you."
- "Everyone wants me to be alone with my problems."
- "I will not require anyone."
- "I grow on my own, without someone else's help."
- "Everyone sues me."
- "I give myself to people as a zhebrak."
- “The others have those that I need.”
- “You don’t need me, I won’t ask you for anything.”
- “Dbay about me, close to me, take care of my needs.”
Peculiarities of the stage that are signified by breastfeeding
The main process, which indicates the specificity of the oral stage, is breast development. It allows children not only to take away the necessary food, but also to bring satisfaction, allowing them to know the necessary light.
The oral phase is the first in the development of human sexuality. At this stage, you still don’t think about your mother. The symbiosis is not attached to the completed vaginess and the people of the child, to that the mother's breasts to the song of the world, for not being able to prodovzhennym himself. In such a state, according to Freud, the sexuality of the child is oriented by herself. Maternal breasts bring a little security, comfort. By the very stretch of the oral stage, it is necessary to breastfeed the child.
For some reason, you should not be fooled, so when you take yoga on your hands, so that you save physical contact. Vin is also important for this period. Feeling maternal warmth allows children to partially compensate for a small part of the process.
In childhood, children often express concern, as if their mothers had no instructions. It’s not uncommon for them to get tired of themselves in an unfortunate way - the stench begins to sniff, scream, ask for hands. Psychologists recommend not to encourage children. For now, mothers do not just indulge in the whims of their children, but allow themselves to be enthralled in an unknown world. Supra-mundane severity will negatively signify the development of a child on the future.
The role of hyperopia
Due to the strictness and znevagou needs of the child, Freud saw another type of maternal behavior that leads to unacceptable legacy - hyperopia. Under this term, it is understood that respect is promoted, it is impossible for everyone to do it, with which the roblyachs should be born earlier, lower it will signal about their consumption. Freud realized that insulting types of behavior lead to molding in a child of such a character as oral-passive, which would be looked at from a distance.
Approximately at pіvroku, the teeth begin to erupt in the child. The stench is familiar to the ear of another phase of the oral stage - oral-aggressive, or oral-sadistic. Chewing and biting are recognized as aggressive children, for the help of such a child, I take away the possibility of demonstrating discontent. Similar people to a grown-up person pragnate panuvati over the soothing backs to reach their goals. In this way, the main oral stages, which are only two, are also added to the further psychosexual development of the child. As soon as the little one consumes, they are satisfied, it will be harmonious. If it is a conflict, then it is possible to rehabilitate and different psychological damage.
Viniknennya "his" and "over-I"
The oral phase of the psychosexual development is characterized by an incremental development of the intelligible "I". The psyche of not moving on the back is represented by unseen pulls and instinctive spontaneous movements, which may seem to be satisfied negligently. At his own side, apparently satisfied, they are expanding all over the body of the child. The back of yoga “his” is made out as an instance, creating a satisfaction of their needs, and also a way to achieve satisfaction and speed it up. Dali bude razvinen and zdatnіst vіdkidatі nіdkidatnі drіvіnіatnі аbо ways otrimannya satisfaction - the function of psychoanalysts is given to sіvvіdnositsya z "over-I".
"His" implicitly pours into those, in such a form, the instinct can reach knowledge, get into active action. "His" can either allow the instinct to sink in at the diї, or else fence it, turning the pulls. So chi іnakshe, the development of the instinct to lie down due to the peculiarities of "his". It is like a kind of lens, into which the undercuts are broken, which come from the inner world.
Interaction between "his" and the unknown
In this rank, under the hour of the oral stage, the "I" develops, changing in the service of the "vono". At this hour, "his" is represented by various narcissistic experiences, the shards are more important than the greater internal energy of the libido is directed to the body of the child. As soon as a person has matured, he specifically represents his “I” in the process of self-discovery, then he does not know the fate of “his” fate until the second time, as he is satisfied. When you come to the new one, be it accepted aspects of the current world.
At the oral stage, the development of a person's "I" as a head guarded and tested (phenomenological) power is being developed. The first plan of information is to understand about inter-individuals.
The role of the mother in the development of the nemovlyat
The reports of the Spit show how empty the child can be without respect for the first fate of the first fate. Having guarded the vcheniy behind the little one from the porch, some of them were satisfied with hunger. However, the stench of the boules was on the treacherous interval of the hour on their own. Number of children showed deep stutters at the same time in some spheres of development. Part of this syndrome distal I call hospitalism.
The last studies, conducted by Provens and Lipton, describe the replacement of early genital masturbation or masturbation (as in the skin of a child for the mind and older mothers) with other autoerotic diseases in women with problems in mothers. As if the mother was familiar (like a child’s back), these appearances appeared more and more. The results show that the mother's year of the breast can be of great importance for the development of the child.
Another look at the interoral stages: micropsychoanalysis
As classical psychoanalysis assumes that the phase of psychosexual development is given three times from 0 to 18 months, then at this hour of increasing expansion, the point of dawn is widening, as if it were starting earlier - in the womb of the mother.
Freud zoomed in on the myth about the “golden childhood”, which he conveyed, that children are invisible conflicts and dark pulls. And in the 70s of the last century, having become one more myth - about the "golden age" of the prenatal period, if the child and mother are rebuying the new psychological and physical symbiosis, the consumption of the unpopular baby is automatically satisfied. Directly, which develops the psychosexual development of a person under the hour of intrauterine development, having removed the name of micropsychoanalysis. Yogo hospice showed that no one can talk about any prenatal symbiosis of mother and child. The participants of the tsієї dіadi change at the folding, and often at the conflict mutuals. The child is growing up, already looming the uneasy dosvіd fight, confrontation. At a glance, the psychological trauma of the people has ceased to be the primary psychotrauma. I prepare for this role, I do not pretend to be attached to the breast.
Chi bezzahisne nemovlya?
It is important that the child is born into the world absolutely bezporadny. Prote tse zovsіm so. I need only to show my shamelessness and to know the pennies I will be in contact with my mother, which is the hour of the oral stage. Bezporadnіst vyyavlyaєєєєєєєєєєєєєєє at that moment, if not for a certain hour, you need water, їzhі, їzhі. The first satisfaction of these needs for children at this stage is related to the area of the company.
The Necessity of Autoerotic Satisfaction for a Child: A Perspective by A. Freud
Those who don’t feel like they’re happy with the hour of breastfeeding, commensurate with the erotic, are brought to the appearance of an erection in a person’s state. The girls are similarly awakened. As shown by Sigmund's daughter, a lot of similar stimulation is necessary for normal psychological development. In the future, in the future, in the future (not only in the oral stage), the fences of the fathers are not good. Otherwise, the child grows passive, fallow. In the new one, one can be afraid of a disruption in the psychosexual development, and an intellectual awakening.
Physical and psychological unity
In the oral stage, the child is still not reconciling himself to his mother in psychological terms. A single wine vvazhaє i vlastnyy organіzm іz її tіlom. Different deficits in tactile contact are blamed on different behavioral disorders in an older adult. These violations are against us in front of sexual behavior, and they are not only in humans, but also in primates. The whole thing is shown by a great number of achievements, held in the 50-70s of the last century.
Particularly unsafe blame for the situation, if the child is not just at the oral stage opposes the mother, but in such a situation, if the closeness of an adult means a guarantee of sick procedures. Such a person has an indescribable fear of physical contact with other people, as well as a serious sexual indulgence. Therefore, the rebuking of a child in the minds of a hospital can be organized only as a bed with a mother.
Oral and anal stages: insight
The next stage of names is Freud's anal. Starts every year close to 18 months and three to three years. Oral and anal stages are like a child's satisfaction. Just for the sake of not moving the mouth, then at the onset of the child, we take away the satisfaction from the intestinal obstruction and the faraway faeces. Step by step, the child begins to succumb to the salt for help in the line of deportation.
Oral is that anal stage of development, according to Freud, rich in what the behavior of an already mature person is attributed to. At these stages, the vector of a particular development develops. If it is stuck in the oral stage of a child, it can become a fallow or aggressive personality, then fixation in the offensive phase can lead to pedantry, greed, and stubbornness. Oral is that anal stage of development - only two first stages in the life of a child. They are followed by a fake, latent, that genital stage. For the whole hour, the child can podolat Edipiv complex and learn to live in prosperity, contributing to the new one’s contribution of labor.
Characteristics of the anal and oral stages are also different. As the first stage, the basis of the first psychological development is turbota and mother's love, then the onset stage in the form of both fathers of the little ones is necessary to receive praise. Interest in faeces in children is absolutely natural. Children at whom you have been spared giddiness. The feces of the stench take on like pershu river, what to lay down. Like a father praising a child for his success as a miner, you won’t become fixated at this stage.
The oral stage according to Freud is the most important stage in the development of specialness. Knowing the features of this stage and other phases of development, fathers and teachers take away the possibility of inflicting psychological trauma on a child. The molding of the specialty in times will be with the least churn, so the child is more likely to be happy.
Psychosexual development (eng. Psychosexual development) - a theory formulated by Sigmund Freud, which explained the development of the specificity of my change in the biological functioning of the individual. The social background of the skin stage imovirno overwhelms its own vibes like attitudes, characteristics, special features and values, swollen at this stage.
Stages of psychosexual development
The development itself is divided into five distinct phases:
- The oral phase (0 - 1.5 years) is the first stage of childish sexuality, in the mouth of a child, it appears as if it were the first time, satisfaction in the process of pissing and forging.
- The anal phase (1.5 - 3.5 years) is another stage of childish sexuality, when a child begins to control his defecation acts, while being satisfied with the control over his body. During this period, the child is accustomed to splendidly that corystuvannya with a toilet; Blaming the problems between a child and fathers (if, for example, a child, on the basis of the principle, turns into a mountain worker, and then what is in his pants, being pleased with those who “annoyed” his mother) can lead to the development of a child’s so-called “anal character”, such manifested in greed, pedantry and perfectionism.
- Falіchna phase (3.5 - 6 years) - the third stage of childish sexuality. At this stage, the child begins to twist his own body, look at that and chop his state organs; the new vinicator has an interest in the father of the protile state, identification with the father of his state and splitting the singing state role. With a problematic passage of the stage, a child can develop a single complex, but in a mature life, you can bring up another stage of problems in relationships with partners.
- The latent phase (6 - 12 years) is the fourth stage of childish sexuality, which is characterized by a decrease in state interest. Being destroyed in the sexual sense, the energy of the libido is transferred to the assimilation of the deep human knowledge, enshrined in science and culture, as well as the establishment of friendly waters with one-year-olds and grown-ups beyond the borders of the family otchennya.
- The genital phase is the fifth stage, the final stage of Freud's psychosexual concept. It is characterized by the time at which the mature sexual blues are formed. Reached at the podlitkovu vіtsі.
Freud's main thesis was that early recognition of children's articles is polymorphic, and that strong cravings develop to incest, and the child is guilty of victoriousness or sublimation, in order to develop a healthy adult sexuality. There are no scientific data that confirm the existence of the passage of these stages of psychosexual development by children. Navpaki, є danі, scho scho
Stages of psychosexual development according to Z. Freud
Z. Freud (Freud S., 1905) saw the stages of psychosexual development, name some manifestations of the zones of the child's body, which in the singing stages are developed for the satisfaction of the state traction and for the satisfaction, which is taken into account in the functioning of one's own body:
Oral (lat.: oris - mouth) stage - continues through the first fate of life;
Anal (lat.: anus - back passage) stage - occupies a century period from about one to three years;
Falіchna (Edіpova) (Greek: phallos - article member) stage - starts from about three years and ends about six;
Latent (lat.: latentis - attachments) - starts at sixth - seventh years and ends at the prepubertal period of years at eleven - twelve;
Genital (lat. genitalia - state organs) - three times from 12 to 18 years.
Oral stage of psychosexual development
Through the first fate of life, the child is going through the oral stage of psychosexual development. Yogo іsnuvannya is simply impossible without a mother. The stench of the two is a folding and well-groomed "mother-child" system. Peculiarities of this stage of the development of the connection with the drowsiness of the perceptible passivity of the child. Vіn yet do not show your body to the body of your mother, do not see yourself in the necessary world, without awakening your cordons. Vin. The territory, which is still accessible, is marginally fenced. The most accessible is damp. In the process of carrying out the babies, the specificity and sensitiveness of the organs of the state are manifested in a special way, taking away the satisfaction of having wet genitals. A small number of similar autoerotic stimulation is normal, moreover, it is necessary to induce a normal development of a child.
However, the most powerful, life-necessary experience of indestructibility is taken away at the end of the last object accessible to you - the mother. Clinging to it, wrapping it around, I will take away rich impressions that are accompanied by positive emotions. Nayyaskravishi, nayriznomanitnіshi vіdchuttya you go to take care of the help company. Moistening, biting, chewing breasts, forging milk that comes from her, allow for a short hour to be as angry as possible with the mother, as if the world had wiped out after the people of the cordon, as if turning yourself into a carefree, blissful inner womb camp. In this way, sexually, suttyu і є zlittya z darling object, mutually penetrating z method of maximum erasure of cordons and reduction of basic anxiety, at this stage, focus on the expansion of the company, especially when breastfeeding. With each child, I take it even more important for її the development of mutual understanding.
Anal stage of psychosexual development
Pragnuchchi know navkolishnіy svіt, schob, having reduced the lack of information, yogo more razzumіlim and perebachuvanim, change the basal anxiety by yourself, the child will thoroughly his own hand, master new spaces. When you feel positive emotions, take pride in building with your body. I will especially play a role in mastering the skills of goodness - building enough to embellish and vishtovhuvati the cut, cal. These processes are accompanied by a feeling of sensitive satisfaction, reinforced by the praise of the fathers. Sufficiently seeing the excrement means for the child and confirming the thoroughness of the body with his body, and mastering the old middle ground, in which wines sheds her traces, similarly to how the creatures (for example, wolves) signify their territory. Therefore, the great interest of children is mindful of their own vision.
By accustoming a child to a mountain worker, the fathers first begin to vimagati in the light of their viability of singing social norms. Embarrassed mothers, condemnation, sometimes punished for wet or muddled pants, that punished for those who didn’t show respect before, crying out, protesting reactions, sometimes ambivalent (dvіyni) emotions of a mother. Like a stosunki in this accordion, like a child of a bazhan, then before her put up with a pogo. And here the mastering of the skill of arrogance goes unnoticed. Everything comes out as if by itself, mothers forcibly forcibly guess, as if the stench had taken the child to swell like a mountaineer. The more anxious the fathers, the more the stench of the early adoption of the child to the miner, the more problems fit into the link with the cym. The child often becomes upright, sometimes aggressive, her mood is unstable. Life is terrifying for a child to learn how to cope with his emotions. To rob a little person more independent, she becomes independent.
Those who are the most important stimulus for new recruits (fear of reprisal, fear of a discordant mother, exercising otrimannya feelings, positive emotions) can put a lot of money on the development of a child. To reach the singing world of self-reliance to three fates to the point where you start to ascertain your boundaries, you see yourself from the extra world, which marks the transition of the child to the advancing stage of development.
Falіchna stage of psychosexual development
The fake stage is characterized by the formation of a new mental function - self-confidence. It is manifested by the building to see oneself in a superfluous world, to distinguish oneself from those others, When one child begins to name oneself not in the third, as before, but in the first person (“I want!”). The “mother-child” system is based on the impossibility of having a basis without each other, the members of their own collapse, although the mothers nevertheless become deprived of the most important person for the child.
Looking at the mother, you see that all people are divided into two parts: into people and women. Up to one of the groups one can feel like a child, in order to understand the essence of one’s state belonging, to actively acquire one’s state role, it is necessary for you to find out who has the right to be a woman.
Interest in dominating one’s own and another’s body, in the taєmnitsі narodzhennya is manifested in young women, watching, in organizing sleeping parties of boys and girls, which are accompanied by denuding and demonstration of genitals. Vіdnosini to both batkіv often swell ambivalent (double) character. The father of his position is taken as a competitor, like a child, the father of the opposite state is jealous. Moreover, the rest of the beginning of the call to the new greater, lower earlier, interest, shards of the wines of the nearest and most famous representative of the other state. At the final stage of the child's stage, I create a single infantile concept about the identity and mutuality of articles. Deyakі variants of such concepts, lakayut children, and other concepts are accepted positively, accept the child's acceptance of their status role and readiness to fully sever. Viddilennya vіd mother at tsіy stage vіdbulosya, ale vіddіlennya vіd it continues, growing need for independence. As a mother is unhappy with a girl, she is inexplicably often trying to compensate for a lack of warmth, bringing together, positive emotions of a child's rahunok. With this exercise of self-reliance, in the distance you lakaє її. It’s pragmatic to save closeness, to be deprived of the necessary child in everything, to attach yourself to the link with zim be-yakі show independence, provocatively sim negativism and disobedience, to win the fight of the little one for his independence, his development. The main result of the successful passage of this stage is to show the child's ability to get rid of positive emotions in the form of bodily and emotional contact with other people. With this, it is laid a little bit of the basic one to something else, which is rich in why it’s important to point out a little bit of the difference.
Latent stage of psychosexual development
The latent stage is characterized by greater expansion of the interests of the child between the families of the same. Having started to study at school, the child changes his social status - he becomes a schoolboy. At the new one, new bindings, turboti, until the new one, they begin to lie still. Tse to bring to the far distant distance from the fathers. Your authority is dark, that which does not show competition with the authority of a new child in life - a teacher (as a rule, a teacher). Vchitelka, from the look of more students of the younger classes, you know much more, lower mother chi tato. The lads of the high school age are much bigger and even more connected one with one. Collision with one-year-olds is becoming even worse in connection with them, which in the children of the rest of the time, the unreturnability of their state authority. The lads and girls show different interests, which show their pidloz, choose different games and partners with them, and if they have an interest in feeding the status life, the children show to be ashamed. To this very stage, the psychosexual development of children aged 7-11 took away its name. The epithet "latent", tobto "attached", Z. Freud was positive in V. Fliss (1905). The stench of resentment was respected, that children of 7-11 years of age are significantly less, lower earlier, to put mature “unhandled” nutrition on sexual ones, more likely to play at the game, to shave off the nudity. However, a lot of successors didn’t give me any thoughts. So D. Mani (1980) having taken into account that the children of the young continue to grow in sexual games, or rather, to take them. Fundamental studies of child sexuality by R. and D. Goldmanov (1982), who nurtured more than 800 children in Australia, Pivnichny America, Great Britain and Sweden, who are transferred to the “latent” stage of development, also did not confirm the development. The stench did not show a sign of a decrease in interest to state food and sexual experimentation in the lads. As a result of such appearances, it follows the class (segregation) according to the status sign: the boys play only with the boys, and the girl with the girls. Gradually, beginning in about 8 years, segregation reaches a maximum in decimal children. In this way, in the latent phase, go farther away, actively accepting that formation of a state role, mastering the power of its peculiarities of behavior. Tse manifests itself in the appearance of a deliberate podkrelennya visibly to muscular (powerful men) or feminine (women) figures. Before attracting children to the interest of the opposite state, cause fear of becoming inappropriate to one’s state affiliation: “If you are with girls, then you yourself are a girl! ".
Genital stage of psychosexual development
The genital stage develops from the beginning of the puberty period, which is characterized by physiological sublingual hypersexuality. Change of rank, which, with the appearance of secondary statutory signs, changes the setting of otochuyuchih to podlitkiv. The state of maturation of girls in the middle child is in advance of the maturation of boys. At this stage, children have few problems. Boys and girls can be turbulent in terms of the appearance of secondary state signs, transcendent vaga, the appearance of youthful vugs, erotic dreams, promotion of interest to the opposite state, masturbation. Too many lads can be turbulent to small growths, lack of physical strength, stuttering of the appearance of airs, engorgement of milk veins, small, from the їхнoї point of view, the size of a state member. The girl is experiencing the drive of a high growth, rozmіrіv and forms of milk infections, irregularity of menstruation.
The state’s role in this state’s role has already matured, that the friendship of the young man and the girl does not just not put the adequacy of his state role in doubt, but on the other hand, it confirms the state’s role, in addition to helping to win the task of the emotional decision. As in tsimu vіtsі stosunki with fathers or friends of their stats, they are more valuable for a podlitka, lower than a kohannya, you can tell about a deak zatrimka of a psychosexual development.
Experiencing the genital stage, the youngsters are trying to find a way to save money for children and fathers, and to find new partner sexually erotic waters. Vіd tsogo choice is rich in why to lay yogo away from life.
В останні десятиліття посилюється тенденція до інтегрованого, цілісного розгляду особистості з позицій різних теорій та підходів, і тут намічається також інтегративна концепція розвитку, що бере до уваги узгоджене, системне формування та взаємозалежне перетворення всіх тих сторін особистості, акцент на які робився у руслі різних підходів that theory. One of these concepts was the theory that the American psychologist E. Erikson should have, in more recent years, the trend has been pronounced.
E. Erikson in his views on the development of the so-called epigenetic principle: the genetic intelligence of the stages, as in his own special development of the language, people pass through the people until the end of their days. E. Erikson's largest contribution to the theory of special development is based on the description of eight life psychological crises that inevitably occur in a skin person:
1. Crisis of doviri - distrust (by stretching the first fate of life).
2. Autonomy in opposition to sums and som (we have close to 2-3 years).
3. Appearance of initsiativnosti against the opponent, feel guilty (approximately in 3 to 6 years).
4. Practice against the complex of incompetence (for ages 7 to 12).
5. Special self-appointment against individual maturity and conformity (from 12 to 18 years old).
6. Intimacy and comradeship against special psychological isolation (about 20 years).
7. Turbine about turning a new generation against the “zanurennyu in itself” (between 30 and 60 fates).
8. Satisfaction with living life in opposition to rozpachu (over 60 years old).
The formation of the specialty of Erikson's concept is taken as a change of stages, the skin of such changes is like a transformation of the internal evil of a person and a radical change of yoga in the presence of people. As a result of this wine, as a specialty, it becomes new, it is characteristic of the development itself for a given stage of development and what is taken from the new (accepted from looking commemorative traces) by the stretch of a lifetime.
The new specialties themselves, for E. Eriksson, are not blamed for an empty space - their appearance at the singing stage was prepared by the entire process of the forward development of specialities. New in niy can be blamed and affirmed, only if in the past it was already created in the past psychological and behavioral mind.
Forming and developing as a specialty, a person is filled not only with positive qualities, but also with shortcomings. It is practically impossible to reveal in detail in a single theory all variants of an individual special development behind all positive and negative new creations. Looking at the problem, E. Erikson depicted in his concept only two extreme lines of special development: normal and abnormal. In a clean looking person, the stench in life does not linger, but instead, in one's own house, all the powers that be, variants of a person's special development (Table 12).
E. Erikson has seen all the stages of development, one to one parallel with the crises of century development described above. At the first stage, the development of a child may be attributed to her, including the mating of older people with her, to her mother. At this stage, they can already winknut and change their minds, I will show in the future the pragnennya of people, or the adoption of them.
Another stage marks the molding in a child of such special qualities, such as self-reliance and self-confidence in oneself. Їхнє becoming also a significant world to lie in the nature of mating that encouragement of grown-ups with a child.
Respectfully, up to three children's lives are already filled with special forms of behavior, and here E. Erikson has analyzed the data of experimental studies. You can talk about the legitimacy of the whole development of the same before the connection with the child from the side of the grown-ups (there is an important role to play in this process of subject cohabitation), but the fact that the child of the trinity age should not even be considered as a small amount.
The third and fourth stages of development, according to E. Erickson, also run wild with the manifestations of D.B. Elkonin and other psychic psychologists. In this concept, as we have already looked at by us, the significance of the initial and labor activity for the mental development of a child in the circles is reinforced. Looking at our scientists from the positions that E. Erikson stands on, I think more about the fact that he emphasizes respect for the formation of non-operational and cognitional minds and newcomers, but for special features, related to different types of activity, activity: (at the positive pole of the development), inactivity, carelessness of labor and the complex of lack of labor, intellectual necessities (at the negative pole of the development).
The advancing stages of special development are not presented on the theories of virtuous psychologists. All the same, you can wait a long time for them, that the advent of new lives and social roles will make people marvel at a rich variety of speeches in a new way, and in this way, maybe, it is the main point of the special development of the senior vice, who is going for youth.
Vodnochas viklikaє zaperechennya line of anomalous development of specialty, christened by E. Erikson for this century. Vaughn obviously looks pathological, at the same time as this development can take on other forms. It is obvious that psychoanalysis and clinical practice have added to the system of looking at E. Erikson.
In addition, on the skin of seeing the stages of development, the author shows only a few moments to explain it, and less on the specifics of the new creation, which are characteristic of the new age. Without diligent respect, for example, at the early stages of a child's development, that child's voice was lost, moreover, it is more important only in anomalous forms.
Prote is a significant part of the life of truth in this concept to be forgiven, and the smut, it allows you to reveal the important significance of the period of childhood in the whole process of a special development of a person.
At the end, it is significant to emphasize the position of a special development, as occupied by E. Fromm. Well, it is clear that we have given the philosophically most correct interpretation of the goals and the task of a special development in the minds of the modern democratic society. Democracy, writing wine, is the whole system, not in words, but in fact, creating economic, political and cultural minds for the overall development of the individual as special. The development of specialness is the recognition and realization of unique abilities that a skin person has. People, having vvazhav the author, people are equal, ale different. It is about the self-reliance of a person, the cultivation of uniqueness, which is based on nature, and on the basis of higher moral, spiritual values - the most important task of vihovannia.
Speciality is to be developed freely, and freedom to develop in practice means the inability to be a powerful force, the crime of self-perfect specialty. Future democracy to lie in the realization of individuality in that positive mind, as it gets stuck in the understanding of individuality. As an individual, as a special person, it is not the fault of manipulating an external force, either a state or a collective.
Today we will talk about the oral stage of psychosexual development.
During this period (from the people to the second fate), life is not to be left entirely because of the one who talks about the new one, and the company’s area is most closely related to the satisfaction of biological needs and receiving inputs. It’s a hell of a thing to stand before the slow stretch of the oral-fallow period, laying the groundwork for the main installations: fallow land, independence, trust that support for other people. The child's back is not in the air to swell the body of the mother's breasts, and at the same time give you the opportunity to see the lowerness of that love to yourself. And then the chest will be replaced by a part of the body of the body: the child will smoktatime your finger, or the tongue, to change the tension, the viklikan of the mother's turboti. It is so important for him not to interrupt the birthday of the breast, as a mother can celebrate yoga herself.
Fixation of behavior at this stage can be due to two reasons:
Frustration chi blocking the needs of the child.
Superlativeness - the child hopes for a lot of opportunities to cherubate himself with his internal functions. As a result of this, the child develops a sense of staleness and incompetence.
By the way, at mature fates, fixation at this stage can be seen in a seemingly “out of control” behavior. A person who has grown up in a situation of severe stress can regress and be accompanied by tears, squeezing a finger, and drinking a lot. The oral stage will end when breastfeeding starts and it leaves the child in complete satisfaction.
Freud postulate, zgіdno z like in a child, yak took away the supermundane or lack of stimulation in a child, more likely to be formed far away an oral-passive type of specialness. Basic yoga rice є:
Checking the navkolishny light of the "mother's" setting to yourself,
constantly vimagaє laudation,
supra-mundanely fallow and dovirlivy,
responsive to the need for encouragement and acceptance,
life passivity.
By stretching the other half of the first fate of life, another phase of the oral stage begins - oral-aggressive. Now the teeth of the unmovable are showing, the teeth of which biting and chewing become important means of expressing frustration, caused by the mother’s day or by the line of satisfaction. Fixation at the oral-aggressive stage is manifested in mature ones in such rices, like love to super-cheeks, pessimism, sarcasm, cynical staging to everything that is repulsive. People with this type of character are powerful in exploiting others and dominating them from the satisfaction of their needs.
We continue the theme of the psychosexual stages of the development of the child according to Freud and injecting fixation at these stages on the character of a person in the future. Today we will look at the phase of development - anal.
The anal stage starts at about 18 months and lasts up to three years. For a long period of time, the child will learn to go to the toilet on his own. Vіn otrimuє great satisfaction with the control, tk. ce of the first functions, which vmagaє in the new awareness of their activities.
Freud's perekonaniya, scho sposіb, like a father to accustom a child to the toilet, pours into the її її її її її її її її її її її її її її її її її її sobistіsny razvitok. All future forms of self-control and self-regulation take the cob in the anal stage.
Іsnuyut two main batkivski tactics, related to the adoption of children and control their internal processes. We will talk more about the first - primushu, tk. the form itself gives the most negative consequences.
Deyakі batki don't behave like a gnuchka and powerfully, imposingly, so that the child "went to the mountain worker at once". At the end of the day, the child may be forced to punish the fathers and the constipation will begin. Just as the tendency to “trim” becomes super-worldly and expands in other ways, then in a child it can be formed anally - an treading type of specialness. So grown up, over the top, stingy, methodical and punctual. It’s even more difficult for me to endure the laziness, the swindle, the insignificance.
Another distant result of anal fixation, mindfulness of the father's strictness about the toilet - tse anally - vishtovhuyuchiy type of specialness. Figures of this type include weakness to collapse, restlessness, impulsivity. In love affairs in mature women, people often take partners in front of us as an object of freedom.
The second category of fathers, for the most part, wants their children to regularly win the toilet and praise them for the price. From Freud’s point of view, such a pidhid, a kind of encouragement for children to control themselves, develop a positive self-esteem and learn to accept the development of creative zdіbnosti.
We continue to look at the psychosexual stages of the development of the child on Z. Freud. Let's talk today, yakі zmіni carry with you a fake stage of development.
Between three and six fates, the interests of the child are brought to a new zone, the area of the genitals. By stretching the phalic stage, children can look at and finish their own state organs, show blockage in the food, connected with the state of the arts. Although their statements about the growth of sexuality sound indistinguishable, pardoning, and even inaccurately formulated, Freud, having respected, more children, understand the essence of sexuality more clearly, lower the fathers. Priming on the bastard on TV, on some phrases of the fathers or on the explanations of other children, the stench paints the “primary” scene.
The dominant conflict at the phalic stage is related to what Freud called the Oedipal complex (an analogous conflict in girls, naming the Electri complex). Describing the complex, Freud was inspired by the tragedy of Sophocles "Tsar Oedipus", into the yakiy Oedipus, the king of Thebes, having hated his father and joining in a bloody tie from his mother. If Edip is wise, having committed some kind of stingy sin, having made himself guilty of guilt. Freud looked at tragedy as a symbolic description of the greatest of human conflicts. From this point of view, this myth symbolizes the unrecognized child of the mother of the father of the opposite state and at once suck the father of one of his stats. Ponad those, Freud knew the confirmation of the complex in native ties and clan mutual relations, like in various primitive suspensions.
In norm_edip_v, the complex develops in different ways in boys and girls. Let's look at how it appears in the boys.
The back of an object of love in the boy is a mother, or a figure that replaces him. From the people out of the head dzherel satisfaction. You want to show your feelings according to your age before her, as if to shy away, for yoga caution, people of the older century. It’s not worth talking about those that the lad plays the role of his father and at the same time takes the father as a competitor. And then the lad will guess about his lower camp, he will understand that the father cannot tolerate him romantically like his mother. Freud called the fear of castration a fear of castration and, on the other hand, why the boy is afraid of his pragnennya.
In Vіtsі approximately mid-fifteenths and simomas, a complex develops: the lad prinichuє (vіtіsnyає zі svіdomosti) his bazhannya schodo motherі and begin to identify himself with the father (remake yogo rice). This process of victorious functions: first, the boy becomes a conglomerate of values, moral norms, attitudes, models of state-role behavior, what to describe for a new one, what it means to be a man. In another way, identifying with the father, the lad can take the matir as an object of kohannya by way of replacement, now the shards can have the same attributes, like mothers to bachel from the father. An even more important aspect of the development of the single complex is those who take over the child's father's fences and basic moral standards. Tse getuє ґrunt for the development of the super-ego or the conscience of the child. Tobto. superego є naslidkom allowed a single complex.
Grown up people with fixation at the stage of falsity sing loudly, the stench of praise is not good. Falіchni tipi try to reach success (success for them symbolizes the victory over the representative of the opposite state) and constantly try to bring their masculinity and state maturity. The stench is to win over the others from the one who stinks to the right people. It's so very possible to conduct Don Juan's kshtalt.
The prototype of the time is the character of the Greek mythology Elektra, as he encourages his brother Orestes to beat their mothers and її kohantsya and in such a rite to avenge the death of the father. Like the boys, the first object of kohanna among the girls is the mother. However, if the girl enters the stage of the phantom, she will see that she does not have a penis, which can symbolize a lack of strength. Vaughn sounds like a mother to someone who was born “defective”. At the same hour, the girl's mother's father, zazdrivsya, scho wins power and mother's love.
In the course of time, the girl lets go of the Electricity complex with a strangled pull to the father and identification with the mother. In other words, a girl who is more like a matir, takes away symbolic access to her father, and in this rank has a greater chance of becoming a woman who looks like her father.
In women, a false fixation, like naming Freud, leads to flirtatiousness, calmness, and also to a stateless state zv'yazkіv, although stinks can sometimes be called innocent and innocent in sexual indulgence.
The unresolved problems of the edipal complex were identified by Freud as the main source of distant neurotic behavior patterns, especially impotence and frigidity.
We continue to look at the stages of the psychosexual development of children, and today, one of the most peaceful stages is latent.
In the interim from 6-7 years to the beginning of the mid-life period, the child's libido for additional sublimation (reorientation to social activity) is straightened out by the posture. At the same time, the child has to chirp with various intellectual activities, sports, sparring with one-year-olds. The latent period can be seen as an hour of preparation to maturity, which will come in the rest of the psychosexual stage.
A child has such structures as his and his super. What is it? In order to guess the main theses of Freud's theory about the structure of specialness, you can reveal the following scheme:
Supergo is a system of norms, values, otherwise it seems to be the conscience of a person. It is formed with the interplay of children with significant positions, for us in front, with fathers.
He is vindicated for direct contact with the outer world. Tse sprinyattya, myslennya, navchannya.
Id - all our pulls, instinctive, congenital, not acknowledging exercise.
In this way, until the age of 6-7 years, the child has already formed all the special features and variants of the reactions of the child, which will make you look like a protractor of your life. During the latent period, there is a “vdtochennya” that glanced at, perekonan, svetoglyadu. During this period, the sexual instinct is to sleep comfortably.
The offensive mind is recognizable with the remaining stage of psychosexual development - the genital one, as it forms in humans the first step to a partner, the choice of a strategy of behavior in sexual women.
We conclude a series of articles about the psychosexual stages of the development of a child from the perspective of Freud's psychoanalytic approach. Today, we can look at the Genital stage of development and the most important, as a peculiarity of character, are laid down in a child on the skin of these stages.
After the completion of the latent stage, as it continues to the present state maturity, sexual and aggressive spontaneity begins to begin, and at the same time, interest to the opposite state, that growing awareness of this interest. The late phase of the genital stage (the period that lasts from maturity to death), is characterized by biochemical and physiological changes in the body. As a result of these changes, it is more typical for increased anxiety and increased sexual activity.
Presumably before Freud's theory, all individuals go through a "homosexual" period in early adulthood. A new vibe of sexual energy is used to direct people to one of her status (for example, to a teacher, classmate, susida). Tse mozhe wear and clearly expressive character, often intermingle with them, so that the podlets vvazhayut for the better splkuvatisya with one-liners of the same rank with them. However, step by step, the object of the energy of the libido becomes a partner of the opposite state, and the authorities begin.
The genital character is the ideal type of special psychoanalytic theory. The whole person is mature and mature in social and sexual environments. Freud and reconciliation: in order to form an ideal genital character, a person is guilty of taking on an active role in surviving life problems, acting in passivity, domineering early childhood, if kohanna, safety, physical comfort - in fact, all forms of satisfaction were easily given, and nothing was needed for natomist.
Considering the information behind all the previously considered stages of psychosexual development, one can develop the following conclusions: marriage of respect or hyperopia at the first, oral stage of psychosexual development, leading to passivity or cynicism as a domineering character. Fixation at the anal stage - to the point of being stuck, hardened, hard-bones. Unresolved problems of the Edipovy complex provoke schilnist to bezladny love ties, neurotic patterns of behavior, frigidity and impotence. The day of roaming in the Genital period is the inevitable brother of the vitality and passivity of life.
Knowing about the peculiarities of the stages of the formation of the psyche, we can help the child, with the least for her, to learn how to work with their internal exercises, without interfering with their creative potential.
All of you pass the same path from the people to maturity. The skin of us may know the knowledge in the womb of the mother, having experienced the shock of being born from the warm and carefree light of the mother's womb in someone else's that wondrous zovnishny world. І skin zmusheniya buv pristosovuvatisya to the light of the world like a moment. In addition, as it was supposed to be attached to the zovnishny world, in some minds and in the same way, to lie down those, which we become special. Even more poured on us by those who knew our natural passions to the extent of our natural wisdom.
It's no secret that the experience of early childhood puts a strong strain on our individuality. Z. Freud, in his psychoanalytic theory, having seen the stages of development of specialness, the development of such sheds light on the understanding of what these other people are more important in our character. Let's take a look at the stages.
I think that there is a lot of people who feel that Z. Freud is of great importance, having pressed the exercise of a person to take away satisfaction from his body. Vin called exercise a libido-bearing instinct, and the very energy of banquet - libido. Freud vvazhav, th at incl. Today's psychologists swear by the idea that skin people are born with the singing amount of sexual energy (libido). Moreover, under sexual energy, we should not only take pleasure in sex, but in principle, take away satisfaction with our bodily functions.
In different periods of life, energy is most pronounced in one zone of the body, as it is the main source of satisfaction. The very same after the "mіsce" otrimannya of satisfaction were named the stages of the development of a person. All the stench is associated with different erogenous zones, tobto. especially sensitive servants of the body. Before them one can see eyes, ears, mouth, anus, milk spots, state organs.
Incl. the psychological development of a person by the significant world is assigned to the її biological logic development. And yet, individual drawings and peculiarities of the nature of the deposit are due to the fact that this stage of development was rather friendly, in some minds it was necessary that the fathers invested the values of that installation at that stage of development of the people.
Psychosexual stages of development of special features:
1. Oral character.
The oral stage is trivaє from the moment of birth to the second birth and takes a period of one year for the baby's breast.
The whole period, if the main person is born, starts before, to secure his foundation with a way of cultivating mother's milk. I smoky ruhi, which vibrate with the mouth - for the time being, the greatest work, like a healthy child. And it’s true work, shards, schob vismoktate milk, it’s necessary for you to report significant zusil. With tsimu pratsyyuyut not only ruin, but the tongue is such a carpet. Otrimuyuchi such an important life, not otrimuyut purely physical satisfaction. In this rank, the zone of the company becomes a tool and a dzherel of physical and psychological almost satisfaction. And smoktalny ruhi zakriplyuyuyutsya as a way to otrimannya satisfaction.
The mouth closes like an important erogenous zone larger than a grown-up person. It’s not enough to know the viraz in the kisses and not so often it’s not so easy to fall down to the partner’s breasts, the roblyachs are all the same smoky ruhi. If you want to often motivate your partner to work to make your partner happy, most of the times they themselves have an obtrusive, aggressive character, and they will replace the satisfaction.
Sko Stoosen the unexpunous forms of the behavior, then the pragnennya of the Oddovati surround the mouth to manifest in the javanniy gumki, Smoktanni Lludyanikov, Smoktanni Togrizovanni Kovpachkiv, Kurinni, buccanic, peremodanniye, liability of the lodge, liabes
Shards at this hour are not able to lie down again in the first place, in the middle of the night, in the mother, then at this stage, the foundation of the main basic installations of specialty, such as fallowness - independence, should be trusted to the people and the world in general, almost a support in the world.
The oskelki don’t sigh for themselves like a mother, then they take their mother’s breasts like a part of themselves. It’s up to you to become the center of the all-world, whose bazhannya can be mittevo vykonuvatisya. In the course of the year, I miss that psychological function, which was small for the mother’s breasts to not move, the child has grown bigger, transferring a part of its body to a part of its body. As a rule, tse mova or fingers, yakі replace the cob object of otrimannya satisfaction and almost security is richer than available. Nadali child, as if you feel unseen, otherwise you will not overcome the necessary maternal yoma turboti, you will go into self-calm, wet your own finger. And grown-up for the cієї well mark the vikoristovuє cigarette and other objects.
An important moment for the further development of the psyche is the process of opening the breasts. What more early in the past, if the need for a turbo, the stability of that support is not satisfied with it, it will be more significant for the child's psyche. Here is an important, not so hourly interval, as such, as subjectively, it seems like a child's waste, the depths of that power of grief. Ideally, the children themselves step by step are moving into the breasts, step by step switching to eating vegetable puree on the spot. sumish.
Now let's take a closer look type of specialty, which are formed at this stage of development.
Oral-passive type of specialty It is formed the same way, if the child took away the lack of cohanna, that turbot from the side of the mother, but if the child took them away, the world needed them. Maternal love and turbota are manifested in t.ch. he has a lot of milk, like a mother could give her child.
A person with this type of special character is characterized by a cheerful and optimistic character, wines, as a rule, lashing out at the best, not being able to overcome difficulties, and not getting ready until midday. Vіn ochіkuє vіd otochyuchih maternal turboti about yourself, naїvno vvazhayuchi, scho virishuvatimut yogo problems. And if reality superimposes yoga, then you can’t understand, as it happened, why it’s so and now work.
This is also a fallow type of speciality. Vіn shukaє postiynogo svallennya svoєї povedіnki from side otochyuyuchih. In addition, he is immature and passive, yet he is trustworthy and easily succumbs to someone else's infusion. It’s not good for yourself to know about yourself, it’s not possible to know a person’s group, so you can take on yourself the job, psychologically replacing your matir. That is why people often become adherents of different sects, passive members of the youth, but not too much. grouping.
Oral-aggressive type of specialty it is formed then, if the fixation occurs at another stage of the oral stage of development, if the child has teeth. Now, with the help of wine, we will take away more vagomia as a tool to express your dissatisfaction. If the mother doesn’t go to the child at once, for a long time in the room, or I’m not sure about the process of the wedding, you can show your dissatisfaction, biting your chest. Sometimes you bite even more painfully, before biting the mother's nipples to the blood.
Similar to immovable, the person has grown up, as if stuck at this stage of psychological development, biting otochyuy, but not with teeth, but verbally. Tse bude know your expression in kohanni in supergirls, sarcasm, post-stiny stilettos and pіdkolki. Well, this type is also characterized by transcendental activeness and the exercise of self-assertion with the help of one’s oratorical skills. Such a person can repair a super-girl for the sake of a super-girl, for the sake of being able to simply demonstrate the power of excellence.
On the face of the first, in the character type, the pessimistic mood is overestimated. Vіn is more cynical in terms of respect for everything that makes you feel better. Other people are recruited victoriously for the satisfaction of the authorities' needs. In addition, in the new it is clearly expressed the right to dominate, subordinating oneself to all who cannot resist it.
2. Anal character.
The typology of specialty according to Z. Freud is based on the logic of the physiological development of the child, and the onset stage of forming the specialty of the bula is called anal by him, and the theme of the child’s raising to the miner comes to the fore in this period.
The anal stage is three times from about the second to the third year. In the same period, there is a residual maturation of the mucosal sphincter in the visual system of the body, and the child will be able to control the act of defecation (defecation) more. Children at whomevery vіtsi otrimuyut apparently satisfied with the very process of morning that vishtovhuvannya faeces and begin to feel satisfied with the control over the wet organism of the path of defecation.
A grown-up person may not realize that we can accept at any given physiological process, which is accepted in us to bring to the impure and to kill the nasty acts. In connection with this, I will tell you a small anecdote from the hours of my childhood.
They spied like a cannibal of an American, a Russian Frenchman, and put a mind to them: you need to work so that the stench will be killed, so that their leader said Kaif. With every cost, yakі stench can vikoristat, not obmezhenі. Ale, yakscho the leader of whom do not say, їх з'їdyat. An American for a whole day rolled the leader on the American weights, but still did not get the bad word, and yogo z'їli. The Frenchman made a raid with him on the shortest public houses, but ended up just like an American. The Russian, on the other hand, has become obsessed with a budgetary option: having asked to bring a skin barrel of beer and a bag of rams, and until one of them is full and not drunk, do not go to the toilet. And if everything was broken, everything was savaged and drunk, the stench of insults blew in the bushes, and it spread around the neighborhood: “Kaaaayf!” Axis so daily physiological satisfaction overcame ...
Turning to the anal stage, the development of specialness, I want to respect that it’s not only for a child to come to the fore, but the building is again filled up quite well with the functions of the intestine. Often it is a banner podієyu for all the motherland. Often in this case one can glimpse the following picture: to put a child on a mountain worker, and the members of this family grow up after a long time, watching over him, like a mustache. Child, bachachi of the floor, I raised respect for my own person, appreciating the importance of the air and the importance of the process itself like this.
I think, at least once I heard the story about those, like a child, after that, like going to the mountain worker, proudly showed the result of their work to their mothers, calling it like a gift of their kind. The joy of mothers is natural at the first stages of becoming a mountain worker; Adzhe is not skin with help to call such a deaf crowd of otochyuchih!
Turning to those typologies of special features, I’ll say that the way in which fathers accustom a child to the toilet, pours into this special development. In addition, in the same period, the foundations of building up to the self-control of a person in the late century are laid. Aje at the same time, the uper child is so keenly clinging to the need to use his natural bajanna from the power of the suspіlstva that hangs in the person of the fathers. Now I can and I am guilty of choosing, to follow the lead of my uninterrupted bazhanya chi to support social exchanges, and to take away the bazhan of the otochyuchikh.
Typology of specialty. Anal development stage:
Anal-emotional type of specialty it is formed just the same, if the fathers go too hard to get the child to the toilet. The stench can be vimagati, so that you will immediately go to the mountain worker, and then your mother will be busy with it (otherwise there may be another reason for your choice). Such a behavior calls out the child's natural opir, which is manifested in the fact that she has constipation. As such a situation is three times a day, an anal-emotional type of specialty is formed.
Yogo is characterized by superficial vpertist, nebazhannya podkoryatisya vimogi, navіt like a stink of logic, but on the other hand, bazhannya put pressure on your own be-scho. Another characteristic of rice is its type of specialty, tse sknarist. A person is saving pennies, accumulating them and forcibly sifting them, like before, like a wine before not letting go of his inner “wealth”. It is necessary to respect that both psychology and folk wisdom unanimously equate feces to pennies. Take some dream book and talk about what you can dream about, so that you can predict the appearance of pennies.
In addition, this type of specialty inspires methodicalness, resoluteness and punctuality. A person of this type is able to arrange and lay out on the shelves under the shelves and objects її otochyuchi. Vіn not to endure bezladdya and swindle, and also vydchuvaє strong stress in the situation of innocence. Often wines are weaker before analysis, it takes a decision only after a relativistic assessment of all for that against. In a calm state of wine, absolutely not building up to spontaneous action. Ale, and being awake, building a long time to stream your impulses.
I want to add one more little remark. Often, fathers under the drive of what a child needs to spit, put an enema and can go in with a method to induce violence. It is unfriendly to the development of the psyche and physiology of the child, the shards are formed of a pronounced strain in the region of the anal sphintra and the pelvic floor, which leads to stagnant manifestations in the hallus of the small pelvis. Krіm usogo іnshgo, tse in the region unfriendly vіdbivaєtsya on zdatnosti zhіnki vіdchuvat orgasm and erectile function of a person.
And yet, in such a seemingly innocent medical procedure, take the basis of homophobic tendencies, which are so characteristic of people. Even if the stench is unbelievable, the penetration of the enema kіzmi from sexual violence, which is seen as extreme fortune-telling and opir. Zvіdsi take the root of that intolerance, as the stench is far away from sexual menshin, which is signifi- cantly less taman women, which penetrate into that organism more naturally.
Anal-wiggy type It is another form of protest against the supernaturally intense attachment of a child to a mountain worker. Tsey type zustrichaєtsya more and may still draw, like schilnіst to ruin that impulsiveness. These tendencies can be surrounded by more than verbal forms, as if they appear in a calmness, guess whether an idea, smear a person on the wall, or they can turn around in physical violence against people.
This type is characterized by sadistic zhorstokіst, the need to grow sicker than other people. At their love vіdnosinah qі people take the object of their addiction as an object, like a stink to pragmat mother. In case of any damage to the object, it is very little to be protected from getting close. For this type, it is characteristic to bring a high level of anxiety, which stuns him constantly in a defensive position. And the shards, the best for the new zahist, are the attack, then the fault is the smartest leader of the forward blows, arguing their behavior to them, that the person herself її provoked. So, people of this type often fight their squads, bachachis inspire their pokirnіy behavior to take the form of viklik for themselves.
In order for this stage of development to pass for the child in the most friendly way, the fathers are guilty of reaching a more important position, encouraging the child to adopt a new behavior, but at the same time, not zmushuyuchi її. It is necessary to want and praise the child for regular bowel movements, allowing him to control the process himself. Such a position does not only form a little “I can” in the little one, but it helps the development of positive self-esteem, and also creates minds for the development of creative traits.
3. Falіchny character.
The fake stage occupies a period of three to six years, if the foreground is the interest to the opposite status and the recognition of the obvious inter-states of authority.
This is the same stage of development, as if from the look of the person herself, and yogo psychoanalysis. Practically no human being, as if she had gone through this stage as a whole safely, without far-reaching consequences for her psyche as a whole and for vibudovuvannya with the opposite status of the zocrema. Therefore, we are reminded at this stage of the report. And that typology of specialness, as used by Z. Freud, will be represented in these articles by a false character, the main leitmotif of such self-denial in all areas, incl. and in nutrition mutually from the opposite article.
Henceforth, we are entering the greatest period of the development of specialty with you, if the nutrition of satisfaction with natural needs comes to the background, and the interest of the child to himself, as representatives of other articles, comes to the fore. Tsyu stage of a child to pass between three and six fates of his life. Up to tsgogo vіn priymav otochyuchy shvidshe, like human іstoti, principially do not resent anything. I raptom wines begin to give respect to the retail at the old-fashioned look and behavior of people and women. The dope mind of a child is trying to find out the evidence for food: what are the physical differences between articles?
With the help of the child’s method, it is accepted to follow us in front of itself. You can start to look at your own articles and play with them. For the whole period, you fall first, try masturbation (masturbation) like in boys, so in girls. Truthfully, a girl, in this plan of allowing rich opportunities, that can be taken away by satisfaction in the manipulation of her state organs with an indirect, mediated way. So, rich girls should ride bicycles and horses. A shower with a strong pressure of the water can also create a necessary effect. Another option is vibrations that are created when traveling by public transport, which are transmitted throughout the body to state organs.
Masturbation in this world is absolutely normal and in the normal past. It’s just that often children don’t bachachi in anything nasty, they can go as far as the corporeal vtih in the vast places. Therefore, it is necessary to explain to the child that food is daily intimate and will require singing minds of its implementation. It’s better not to slander a child for similar windings, but you don’t need to want them. The turbulence of the fathers may come more than once, if the child does not just take similar occupations in the onset, latent stage of development, but it will increase the intensity. Then it’s better to turn around for help before fakhivtsya, because. the reasons can be different, zokrema. that suto physiological.
At this hour, children begin to chime in the lives of their fathers. Most of the children, not caring for the father’s reconciliation at the gate, the greater or lesser clearly indicate that they are going to the father’s bedroom at the hour to fix the door. And yet, there is an important nuance in the fact that the stench takes the mother’s father as a kind of act of aggression, which is not surprising, it’s not surprising that the person plays a more active role in the process, physically dominating the partner. And independently, bachila child chi nі, like a mustache, but inevitably fantasize about it, zokrema. to the singing world, reconciling the role of wines.
The little child does not understand love and sex. For new sex - tse warehousing part or prodovzhennya kokhannya, one of the most direct and most direct ways and ways of expression. To that person, you can practice demonstrating your sexuality as an object of your craving, taking it as a very pleasant way to show your covetousness. So the little one can often roam at the presence of an individual, such as he has an erotic interest.
In the norm, psychologically, the boys are related to their father, and the girl is to their mother. Apparently, they stink of love-erotic pulls to the father of the opposite state, which for them is the ideal of that boundary of dreams. As if it were the cause of the father of the day, then the same place in life and the appearance of the child can be occupied by some other representative of the same position from the nearest sharpening: brother, susid, I’m sorry.
Later, skin child, something like a lad or a girl, if you want to make the subject of your kohanny, taєmno bazhayuchi vitіsniti іnshoy dad, to occupy yogo place. You can demonstrate your child's bazhannya both in obvious and in attached forms. Adzhe, on one side, love both fathers, and on the other hand, be afraid of punishment, as if you could zastosuvat the father, which one you want to see from your own love trickery. If the fathers, occupying a grown-up position, allow the pods to develop with their blackness, then it’s too early to deprive the child of the opportunity to take the place of the father of his status as the “best” tata chi mami. Now you will be indulging in a thought about those who, if you grow up, know yourself such a good companion of life, like Yogo tato / mother.
If you write on such subjects, it is important to convey the essence of the process, not roughening it up and not slandering the grotesque. You can get away with it, that everything I write is contrived. But to be astonished by the children, they will make you feel lost. How often can we feel the following phrase: “If I grow up, then I will go abroad for a tata!”? abo "Axis of growth and I will make friends with my mother!" This is the most common way for children to state their claims. And remember, you didn’t feel like a child of similar phrases, know what you think, and seriously think about such a possibility. Ale, it’s too early to realize all the unreality of such an idea and be satisfied with the ordinary person and others to know exactly the same, only better.
Even though the reasons for the development of a child are not determined by a given scenario, then a new one will have different special developments. So, the boy, who cherishes himself with his mother, and not with his father, how can you be normal, in the growth of passive and feminine, lower brothers, I would like to tell you right away, I don’t tell you that such a character is accompanied by a homosexual orientation .
As a mother herself, because of her association with herself, her character, dominating her father, then she is capable of being a woman-passive, so a larger male type of a person, fallow in that, because of some of the special features of a mother, I’ll make a big cotton for myself . Alemie is not elusive in non-psychoanalysis. It’s just that I want you to understand that, as the situation developed, and how it ended, to lie down, as it will be formed in the child’s nadal’s protilezhny statue, and also those, as the picture of her character is overestimated, and yak behavioral models wine realizovuvatime.
It is necessary to indicate that the father of one of his stats plays a great role in the twined child, the shards themselves are traditionally strict to their child. At that hour, as a father of the opposite status, as a rule, the more graceful one is loyally placed before the child, less than її between and vibachayuchi їy windings. Especially, zvichayno, mothers are cherished, as if they were blue. Even traditionally, people are engaged in the care of children in a much smaller world.
A great role is played by the distant development and the formation of a girl as a woman as a father. Loyal and little zaboronyayuschiy father spryaє shaping her feminine character, low strict and rude. In the rest of the year, there is a great chance of identifying a girl with her father and developing her male-female character. In addition, after that, as a father was placed before her, the girl is formed ochіkuvannya moreover, as other people are guilty before her. Virostayuchi, she checks for the same behavior and in the face of her error. And remember, as if the father’s behavior didn’t suit him, like a beating, you can’t see the order of a strong, powerful person, who seems to be unimpressedly quiet, who is soft at the occasion with her.
As we have already said, the Freudian typology of specialness, describing the character that is formed at this stage of development, is called yoga falichnym. Let's look at what are the main draws for the power of the authorities.
Falichny character:
People with fixation at this stage of development, they are characterized by a rather swell, eulogious and neobadic behavior. The stinks nibi try to bring their own light, so stink chogos vart. That stench is even more stubborn to various adventures, bravado, effective vchinkiv. Often such people try to achieve success at some price, but even if they reach it, they cannot get enough of it. Having seized your height, stench already churn it out, as if it had not yet been reprimanded and as it was indispensable for them to be reprimanded.
This type of person does not pay respect to his person, especially to his masculinity. For them, it is simply important to tell everyone that they stink like right men. For this stench, you can choose one of the most direct and obvious ways - the conquest of the greater number of women. If so, the woman herself, as such, can not inspire them. Їx sponkaє to diї show your power over her. Such a person is guilty of constantly bringing himself to others, that a woman cannot stand before him. Ale, as if only a bazhana’s goal has been reached, I’ve been losing my interest to the woman, I’m using all my energy to win a new trophy.
Women, Yakі unfavorably passed through this stage of development, even more skillfully rob the overworld bet on their own privablіvіst zdatnіst vzblyuvati. Tobto. in principle, shy away those that I wrote about people, but only in the female version. The stench can exactly the same way collect people, they didn’t stand before their charm, bachachi in which the first proof of the vlasnoi vinyatkovosti and superiority over supergirls. Even more often for such women it becomes like the busiest person. The stench can go to different cunning and cunning, to get rid of yoga, and once again throw yoga through incompetence.
Such women are characterized by bezladnі stateevі zv'azki. Aje, you will take your readiness to sex stench as if it were a prisoner of your kind. Ale, with whatever name, such a woman may not look like an approachable companion, but a dissolute person. Often you can look more naive and innocence innocent, marveling at the world with wide-open eyes, sovnenie obozhnyuvannya. Ale for tsієyu privablivaya obolonka can hovatisya ruthlessly thinking behind the heads.
But in a woman with a fixation at this stage, she can become more and more special, as a substitute for taking on a woman’s role, the lady begins to fight with people for the first time, trying to bring it to nothing else. Such a woman behaves arrogantly and self-indulgently. So they constantly try to bring their superiority over people, often trying to belittle them, show their incompetence and incompetence. This exercise can take on different forms: teasing, critical respect, please, throw on the kshtalt “I told you ...”, tensions, sexual coldness, assault. You can drink everything, but show with obvious evidence, how many filthy people are, and how much on the background of garna won (start maє raciyu).
4. Latent stage
three years from six to twelve years, characterizing a period of calm in the psyche of a person, if it is not the instinctive life that comes to the fore, but the knowledge of the world and the awakening of social contacts.
5. Genital stage wait a period of state maturation. From this moment on, sexual energy begins to declare itself to a new voice and people know new ways to get satisfaction less often available earlier. In the midst of a hormonal storm, there is a residual molding of the special features of a person.
And yet, with the greatest infusion, the formation of specific features of the character is given to the early stages of development, called by Freud the pregenital stages. The age of a person must pass even more before, as he understands the world again, as if he were significant in the original culture of playing її organ. In addition, if we take a child at the skin stage, I will have enough respect and turbota, or, on the other hand, turbota manifests itself superficially, to lie down those who are farther away from a person in life, if they develop a character, they will be overwhelmed.
If a child is underestimated, for example, if you see it early in the breasts, then you can see it, if you don’t see something important in life, shukati and don’t know it. If a child is alienated by an overworld turbo, not giving her the ability to independently control her natural functions (for example, vision), then she develops an apparent incompetence and stagnation.
And in that, and in a different way, the energy of the libido does not know the necessary output and accumulates in the respiratory zone of the body. Vіdbuvaєtsya fixation іy chi іnshіy stаії razvitku, tobto. stuck at nyomu. It appears at the given transcendental meaning to the ways of removing satisfaction, which are characteristic of the greater early stages. So, the form of similar behavior, which is most often heard today, is not a change. Vono is a direct consequence of the people's desire to take satisfaction from life. But, instead, in order to know more grown-up forms of otrimannya of this satisfaction, a person moves to a greater early stage, and behaves like a little child, soaking his mother's breasts.
This process of transition to a greater early stage of development has taken away the name of regression. And the stronger was the fixation, stuck in the forward stage, the greater the mobility of the migration of people in the child's form of behavior. This process is especially evident if the person is experiencing stress. Todi wines help to restore your soulful jealousy by the way of the tested way of getting rid of satisfaction. Kurts begin to smoke one cigarette after another, they don’t get overwhelmed, for an hour they don’t taste good, I’m more busy with the very process of pottery, but some people “drown grief with wine.”
The first time a person copes with these forces and tasks, as they put on her life stages of development, they are more able to regress in moments of emotional or physical stress. This regressive behavior can be achieved in two ways: having analyzed, understood and worked out those early psychological reasons, as they have led to the formation of such a behavior - the most devastating, and the most complicated and laborious way. But to gain respect for your own time in coping with life's difficulties, the most practical newcomers are the second, additional way, which will help you to often use the nebazhan's behavior, but not your root. Where to direct your forces - on the right behind you.